Alright, let’s get into it. So, the other day, I was thinking, “Why not?” You know, spice things up a little. The topic of the day is, uh, how to make a bi sex threeway happen. I know, I know, sounds wild, right? But trust me, with the right setup, it can be a blast.
First things first, communication is key. This ain’t something you spring on someone. I started by talking to my partner, being totally open about my fantasies and desires. I mentioned I’d been curious about exploring my bi side more, and wondered if they’d be open to the idea of a threeway. Thankfully, they were intrigued, which made things a whole lot easier.
Next, we needed to find someone. This is where things get a little tricky. We definitely wanted someone we both felt comfortable with, someone who was also cool with the dynamic. We considered a few options – a friend we both knew, someone from a dating app, even a professional. After some deliberation, we decided to try a dating app specifically geared towards open relationships and alternative lifestyles. That seemed like the least awkward route, you know?
So, I started swiping. I made it super clear in my profile what we were looking for: a bi-curious or bi woman to join us for a one-time thing. I got a ton of responses, most of which were, uh, not quite what we were looking for. But then, I found her – let’s call her Sarah. She was cute, funny, and seemed genuinely interested in exploring with us. We chatted for a few days, exchanged pics, and just generally felt a good vibe.
We decided to meet up for drinks first, just to make sure there was chemistry in person. The three of us went to a chill bar, and honestly, it was great. We laughed, talked about our interests, and just got to know each other better. The attraction was definitely there, which was a huge relief.
After a few hours, we all went back to my place. We kept the mood light and playful, and started by just making out and cuddling. There was a lot of giggling and awkwardness at first, but we quickly got past that. We took things slow, making sure everyone was comfortable and enjoying themselves. We experimented with different positions and activities, and just focused on having fun.
- Lots of foreplay: Seriously, don’t skip this. It helps everyone relax and get in the mood.
- Constant communication: Check in with each other regularly to make sure everyone’s feeling good.
- Be respectful: Remember, this is about pleasure for everyone involved. Don’t be pushy or selfish.
Honestly, the whole experience was amazing. It was hot, exciting, and surprisingly intimate. We all learned a lot about ourselves and each other. Afterward, we all cuddled up and talked for a while, just basking in the afterglow.
Would I do it again? Absolutely. It was a fantastic way to explore my sexuality and deepen my connection with my partner. But, and this is a big but, it’s not for everyone. You need to be honest with yourself and your partner about your desires and boundaries. And you need to be prepared for things to not always go as planned.
Final Thoughts
The key takeaway here is to prioritize communication, respect, and fun. If you can do that, then a bi sex threeway can be an incredibly rewarding experience.
