Okay, so, I’ve been seeing this term “soft swinging” popping up everywhere lately, especially after watching that show on Hulu, “The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives.” It got me curious, so I started digging around to figure out what it actually means.
First, I hit up the usual spots – you know, just casually browsing social media and forums. I saw a bunch of people talking about it, but it seemed like everyone had a slightly different take. Some folks were saying it’s like regular swinging, where couples are cool with hooking up with other people outside of their relationship. Others were saying it’s a bit more toned down than that.
So, I decided to do some more focused searching. I looked up articles and blog posts specifically about soft swinging. I found out that it’s basically a type of non-monogamous thing where couples get intimate with other partners, but they don’t necessarily go “all the way.”
I kept reading, and it became clearer that there’s no one-size-fits-all definition for soft swinging. It’s more about setting boundaries and communicating with your partner about what you’re comfortable with. For some couples, it might mean just kissing or touching, while for others, it could involve oral sex but not penetration. The key seems to be that everyone involved is on the same page and feels respected.
- I read some personal stories from couples who have tried soft swinging.
- Some said it helped them explore their sexuality and strengthen their bond.
- Others mentioned that it took a lot of trust and open communication to make it work.
- And, of course, there were a few who said it wasn’t for them after all.
My partner and I talked about it, too. We’re in an open relationship now, but we started out thinking about swinging. Honestly, we never actually went through with it. We met up with a few couples, but it never felt quite right. It’s definitely something that requires a lot of thought and discussion.
From all my digging, I realized that soft swinging is a pretty personal thing. It’s not about following some strict set of rules but rather about figuring out what works for you and your partner. It seems like a way for couples to spice things up and explore their desires without necessarily jumping into full-on swinging.
I also learned that there’s a lot of misinformation out there about soft swinging. Some people think it’s just a stepping stone to “hardcore” swinging, but that’s not always the case. It can be a fulfilling experience in itself, or it can be a way to test the waters before diving into something more intense. It all depends on what the individuals involved want and agree upon.
Anyway, that’s my little journey into the world of soft swinging. It was definitely an interesting exploration, and it gave me a lot to think about. I’m still not sure if it’s something I’d ever try personally, but I definitely have a better understanding of what it’s all about now.
