Alright, let’s talk about cunnilingus. I’ve got some experience with this, and I’m here to share what I’ve learned. No fancy stuff, just the real deal from my own experiences.
First off, getting the right position is key. One time, I tried it with my partner lying on her back, legs up. It worked, but it wasn’t the best. Another time, she was on her stomach, and I knelt between her legs at the foot of the bed. This was way better. I could get closer and see what I was doing, which made a huge difference.
Licking is the main thing here. I remember one time, I started by licking from her vaginal opening up to her clit. That was a good start. Then I focused on the clit, licking it gently. My partner seemed to like it when I used a broad, flat tongue instead of a pointed one. I also tried some circular motions around the clit, which she really enjoyed.
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Experiment with pressure. Sometimes, light and fluttery touches work wonders. Other times, a bit more pressure is the way to go. Pay attention to her reactions—they’ll tell you what she likes.
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Don’t forget the inner labia. I found that gently licking and sucking on these can be super pleasurable. One time, I used my fingers to spread her labia apart while licking, and she loved it. It’s all about finding what works for her.
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Use your fingers. I’ve found that combining licking with some finger action can be amazing. While licking, I’d use my fingers to stimulate her G-spot or just caress her inner thighs. This combo drove her wild a few times.
Communication is Key
One thing I learned early on is to communicate. I’d ask her what she liked, what felt good, and what didn’t. This made the whole experience so much better for both of us. Once, I asked her if she preferred faster or slower licks, and her answer helped me tailor my technique to what she really wanted.
In the end, it’s all about paying attention and being responsive. Every woman is different, so what worked for one partner might not work for another. Just keep experimenting, communicating, and enjoying the process. Trust me, it’s worth the effort.
The most important thing is to make her feel good. It’s not about showing off some fancy technique but about making her feel pleasure. So, relax, take your time, and enjoy the ride.
