So, things have been a bit rocky lately, you know? Like, up and down. One day it feels okay, the next day I’m just full of doubts. It got to the point where I was just sitting there, staring at the wall, wondering if this whole thing was even worth the effort anymore. It’s tough when you’re in that spot.
I found myself scrolling online, late one night, not really looking for anything specific. Then I kinda stumbled across this idea of an “is the relationship worth saving quiz”. My first thought was, seriously? A quiz is gonna tell me what to do? Seemed a bit silly. But then another part of me thought, well, what have I got to lose? Maybe just answering the questions would make me think things through properly.
So, I typed it into the search bar. Man, there are a ton of these things out there. Some looked super cheesy, others seemed a bit more serious. I clicked on a few, skimmed the intros. Didn’t want anything too complicated or anything that asked for my email right away. Found one that looked pretty straightforward, just a bunch of multiple-choice questions.
Taking the Plunge (Sort Of)
Alright, so I started the quiz. Felt a bit weird, like I was asking a machine for life advice. The questions were pretty much what you’d expect:
- How often do you argue?
- Do you still enjoy spending time together?
- Can you imagine a future?
- Is there trust?
- How’s the communication?
Answering them wasn’t as easy as just clicking A, B, C, or D. I actually had to stop and think. Like, really think. How do I feel about this? Am I being honest with myself? It forced me to confront some stuff I’d probably been pushing aside. Some questions were uncomfortable, not gonna lie. Made me squirm a bit.
The Big Reveal… Or Not
Finished the quiz, hit submit, and waited for the magic answer. It popped up with some result, I don’t even remember the exact wording. Something like “It might be worth working on, but there are serious issues” or along those lines. It wasn’t a definite yes or no, which, honestly, was probably for the best.
Did the quiz result change my life? Nah. Not really. It didn’t give me some sudden clarity or a roadmap. But the process itself? That was actually… helpful. Strange, right?
Here’s the real takeaway for me: The value wasn’t in the score the website spat out. It was in the act of answering those questions. It forced me to put vague feelings into slightly more concrete thoughts. It made me sit down and assess things, question by question. It wasn’t the answer, but it was a starting point for my own thinking.
So yeah, I took one of those “is the relationship worth saving” quizzes. It didn’t save anything, and it didn’t end anything. But it did make me stop and think, properly, for the first time in a while. And sometimes, I guess, that’s all you need to get the ball rolling in your own head.
