Okay, so I saw this thing online called the “Should I Divorce My Husband Quiz,” and I was like, “What the heck, let’s give it a shot.” I mean, things haven’t been exactly rosy lately, you know? So, I started clicking through the questions.
First off, they asked stuff like, “What makes you think that your marriage is a failure?” It got me thinking, are we even at that point? It’s not like we’re throwing plates at each other, but the vibe’s definitely off. We don’t trust each other.
Then, the quiz was all, “Find out if divorce is the best option for you.” That’s some heavy stuff right there. I started to really consider, is this the end of the road for us? The questions kept coming, each one making me dig a little deeper into the mess that is my marriage.
I came across a part that talked about “silent divorce.” It’s where you’re still married on paper but the spark, the connection, it’s just gone. We’re kind of living like roommates who share a bed but not much else. It hit me hard because that’s exactly how it’s been feeling.
The quiz wasn’t all doom and gloom, though. It also made me think about the serious stuff, like if there was any abuse going on. Thankfully, we’re not there. But it did mention things like constant arguments and a spouse being MIA for long periods. We have our fair share of arguments, but he’s not disappearing on me or anything. But the money, yeah, we need to talk about the money, there are some missing funds.
So, I finished the quiz, and honestly, it didn’t give me a straight answer. It’s not like it spit out “divorce him” or “stay with him.” But it did get the wheels turning in my head. It made me think about what I really want, what I’m willing to put up with, and what’s just a deal-breaker.
I haven’t talked to my husband about taking the quiz yet. I’m still processing it all, you know? But one thing’s for sure, we’ve got some talking to do. Some serious, heart-to-heart talking. Whether that leads to us working things out or going our separate ways, I don’t know yet. But this quiz, as silly as it sounds, might have just been the wake-up call I needed.
It’s a tough spot to be in, questioning your marriage like this. But I guess it’s better to face the music than to keep living in a silent divorce, right? We’ll see what happens. I’ll keep you guys posted, maybe. It’s a journey, and I’m just at the beginning.
- Here are some of the key questions that really got me thinking:
- What makes you think that your marriage is a failure?
- Is there any form of abuse in your relationship?
- Are you experiencing a “silent divorce”?
- Do you have constant arguments with your spouse?
- Is your spouse often absent for long periods without explanation?
It is not easy to share it, I hope everything will be fine.
