Okay, so let me tell you about this thing that happened to me. It’s been eating at me, and I just gotta get it off my chest. The title kinda says it all: “ghosted for over 4 months.” Yeah, you heard that right. Four. Whole. Months.
It Started Innocently Enough
I met this person, let’s call them “Alex,” online. We hit it off right away, you know? We started chatting, texting, and even had a few phone calls. Everything seemed to be going great. We had a lot in common, laughed at the same dumb jokes, the whole nine yards. I genuinely thought there might be something special there. I put a lot of effort into communicating with Alex.
Things Were Going Smoothly
We made plans to meet up a couple of times, but something always came up on their end. I tried to be understanding, life happens and all that. But then, out of nowhere, poof! Alex just disappeared. No more texts, no more calls, nothing. Radio silence.
The Silence Began
At first, I figured maybe they were just busy. I sent a couple of casual texts, just checking in, but got no response. Then I started to worry. Did something happen? I got a bit scared about that. Was Alex in the hospital? Did I do something wrong?
Frustration Sets In
After a few weeks, worry turned into frustration. I mean, come on! We’re adults here. If you’re not interested anymore, just say so! It’s really not that hard. So, I decided to send one last text, basically saying, “Hey, if you’re not feeling it, no hard feelings, but a heads-up would be nice.” Still nothing.
Four Months Later…
And that brings us to now. Four months of wondering what the heck happened. I’ve moved on, of course, but it still bugs me. The lack of closure is the worst part. It’s like a loose end that I can’t tie up. I am feeling so confused. A simple “not interested” would have been a million times better than this.
So, yeah, that’s my story. I shared it here because, well, I needed to vent, I think. And maybe someone else out there has gone through something similar. If you have, let me know I’m not alone in this crazy dating world. It’s rough out there, folks. Remember, just be honest with people. It saves everyone a lot of headaches. And now, I finally feel better after sharing this.
