Lately, I’ve been digging into expert tips for beginners on standing positions against the wall. You know, those moves where you’re both up and close to a solid surface. Sounded fun but a bit tricky, so my partner and I decided to try it out. We’re total newbies at this, just wanted to see if it’d add some spice.

How we got started
First off, I read up on a few expert suggestions online. They said for first-timers, pick a spot that’s sturdy and private. So, we chose our bedroom wall near the bed for support. Then, we dimmed the lights and kicked off with the basics. My partner leaned back against the wall, legs a bit spread, while I stood facing them. We started slow, just like the pros advised, focusing on comfort over anything fancy.
Next, we moved on to this simple tip: one person stands with their back to the wall, and the other presses in close. I took that role first, keeping my feet planted firm. We held each other tightly, shifting a bit to find the right angle. Felt a little awkward at first, but we giggled our way through it.
- Step one: Get the positioning right with both feet flat.
- Step two: Use the wall for balance, not push too hard.
- Step three: Take it easy, build up from there.
Working through the moves
After nailing that, we tried another expert-recommended setup. This time, with my partner against the wall and me standing between their legs. It felt more stable than I thought, but yeah, the wall was cold! We had to pause and grab a cushion to make it cozy. Kept our movements slow and steady, focusing on rhythm. Honestly, it took a few tries to get the balance right—I almost slipped once, but caught myself.
Then, we wrapped up with a variant where both of us stood side-by-side against the wall. Facing each other, we leaned in, keeping hands on each other’s hips for support. This one was smoother, like the experts said it would be for beginners. Less effort, more connection. We spent about 15 minutes on this whole thing, stopping whenever we needed a breather.
What happened in the end
In the end, we pulled it off! Took a bit of patience, but it felt intimate and light-hearted. No big drama, just us laughing and enjoying the experiment. I’d say for other newbies, stick to the easy positions first, don’t rush it. It made us appreciate how solid walls can be helpful instead of just boring barriers.
