Alright, so let’s get down to it. I’m gonna share my experience with sex after an abortion. I know, it’s a topic people don’t usually talk about openly, but hey, it’s part of life, right? So, here’s my story, from start to finish, no fancy words, just the real deal.
The Waiting Game
First things first, I waited. I heard all sorts of things about how long you’re supposed to wait before getting back in the saddle. Some folks said a few days, others said weeks. I decided to play it safe and waited for about two weeks. During that time, I took care of myself, and did all the boring stuff like taking those pills that you are given to take, you know?
Getting Back to It
When those two weeks were up, I felt ready, both physically and emotionally. I was a bit nervous, not gonna lie. It had been a while, and I wasn’t sure how my body would react. But, I took it slow. No rush, no pressure. It was all about listening to my body and doing what felt comfortable.
- First Time: The first time was a bit awkward, to be honest. I was a bit tense, and it took a while to get into the groove. But, with some patience and communication, it got better. We started slow, paid attention to each other, and made sure we were both okay with everything.
- Taking It Slow: After that, I continued to take it slow. I didn’t jump back into my old routine right away. It was more like dipping my toes in the water, testing things out, and seeing how I felt.
- Checking In: I made sure to check in with myself regularly. How was my body feeling? Was I comfortable? Was I enjoying myself? Those were the important questions.
The Emotional Side
Now, it wasn’t just about the physical stuff. There were emotions involved, too. I mean, an abortion is a big deal, and it can bring up a lot of feelings. I made sure to talk about those feelings, with my partner, and a close friend. It helped to process everything and not keep it bottled up inside.
Moving Forward
Looking back, I’m glad I took my time and did things at my own pace. There’s no right or wrong way to do this, as long as you’re being safe and listening to your body. And hey, if you’re going through something similar, remember you’re not alone. Talk to people you trust, take care of yourself, and do what feels right for you. That’s the most important thing.
And, just so you know, I didn’t get pregnant again right away. Some people say you can, but that wasn’t my experience. My body went back to its normal cycle after a while, and everything was fine. So, don’t believe all the rumors you hear, just listen to your own body and do what’s best for you. And don’t be afraid to ask for help if you need it. That’s what friends, family, and doctors are there for, right?
