Okay, so, “pegging sexstellung.” It’s a mouthful, right? I was curious, and, well, one thing led to another, and down the rabbit hole I went.
First, I had to figure out what the heck it even was. Turns out, it involves a strap-on and, um, a receptive partner. Let’s just say it’s not your vanilla missionary position.
Getting Started
Communication is key! Seriously, this isn’t something you just spring on someone. I talked to my partner, made sure we were both comfortable with the idea, and established some safe words. No judgment, just open conversation.
- Talk, talk, talk. Seriously. Before, during, and after.
- Get consent. Enthusiastic consent.
- Use a safe word. And respect it. Immediately.
Next step: acquiring the necessary, ahem, “equipment.” I did some online browsing – incognito mode, obviously – and found a harness and a… well, you know. Something comfortable, not too intimidating, and body-safe silicone. Hygiene is important, folks.
The Main Event
Okay, so we had the gear, we had the conversation, and we were both feeling adventurous. I decided, I’ll be the one wearing and handling. We started slow. Lots of lube. Seriously, lots of lube. I can’t stress that enough.
It was awkward at first, figuring out the angles and the pressure. But we laughed a lot, communicated, and took breaks when needed. It’s about the connection, not just the mechanics.
- Slow and steady wins the race.
- Listen to your partner’s body.
- Don’t be afraid to experiment, but within safe boundaries.
Eventually, we found a rhythm that worked for us. It wasn’t like the movies, all perfect and effortless. It was real, a little messy, and a lot of fun. And yeah, it was pretty intense.
The Aftermath
Cleanup was…well, it was necessary. Soap, water, the whole nine yards. And then we cuddled, talked about what we liked, what we didn’t, and just enjoyed the closeness.
Would I do it again? Maybe. It’s not going to be an everyday thing, but it was definitely an interesting experience. The biggest takeaway for me was the importance of communication and trust. That’s what made it fun and fulfilling, not just the physical act itself.
The important thing is do it with right person and have a try if you are insterested!
