Okay, so, me and my partner decided to try pegging. It was something we’d talked about a bit, and honestly, we were both curious. We’d heard a lot of stuff about it, you know, how it’s getting more common and all that. So, we figured, why not give it a shot?
First thing we did was talk. A lot. We made sure we were both comfortable with the idea. We talked about what we expected, what we were worried about, and what we were excited about. Communication is key, you know? You don’t want any surprises in this kind of situation.
- We started by watching some videos and reading some stuff online. Just to get a better idea of what we were getting into.
- Then, we went shopping for the gear. We chose a harness and a toy that felt right for us. Nothing too crazy, just something basic to start with.
- We made sure to get plenty of lube. You really can’t have too much of that stuff.
When the day came, we made sure to set the mood. We dimmed the lights, put on some music, and just took our time getting comfortable with each other. We started with some foreplay, just to get things going.
Then, I put on the harness. It was a bit awkward at first, but we just laughed it off. We used a ton of lube and started slow. Really slow. We just focused on enjoying the moment and making sure we were both okay.
It was definitely a new experience. It felt different, exciting, and a little bit weird, to be honest. But in a good way! We experimented with different positions and found what worked best for us. It was all about exploring and having fun.
Afterward, we just cuddled and talked about it. We shared what we liked and what we could do differently next time. It was a great bonding experience, and it definitely brought us closer together.
My Tips
- Talk, talk, talk. Make sure you’re both on the same page.
- Go slow. There’s no rush.
- Use a lot of lube. Seriously, a lot.
- Have fun. This is supposed to be enjoyable!
So yeah, that’s our pegging story. It was a fun adventure, and we’re definitely going to try it again. If you’re curious, I say go for it. Just remember to communicate and enjoy the ride!
