Well, let me tell you, this orgasm denial thing, it’s somethin’ else. I heard some folks talkin’ ’bout it, and I got curious. You know, keepin’ yourself from that good feelin’. It ain’t natural, but some folks like it.
They say it makes the big O even bigger when you finally let go. Like holdin’ your pee for a long time, then finally findin’ a toilet. Big relief, you know?
What’s this Orgasm Denial?
It’s like this. You get all worked up, close to the edge, but then you stop. You don’t let yourself go over. You just stay there, right on the brink. It’s like a tease, but to yourself. It’s all about self-control, I guess. Some like to do it alone, some with a partner.
- You start slow.
- Get yourself all excited.
- Then, right before you’re there, you stop.
- Hold it.
- Do it again and again.
Some folks, they like to tie each other up. Makes it harder to, you know, finish. Makes it more excitin’, they say. I don’t know ’bout that. Seems kinda strange to me, but to each their own, I reckon.
Why People Do This Thing?
Some say it makes you feel more. Like your senses are heightened. Everything’s more intense. The colors are brighter, the sounds are louder, the touch is… well, you get the idea. Some folks use it to enhance their sexual experience. And it’s some kind of trend.
Others, they do it for spiritual reasons. Like it’s some kinda test of will. They think it makes ’em stronger, more in control of their bodies. Like them monks, you know, the ones who don’t eat for days. It’s that kinda thing. They are trying to explore more from their bodies by orgasm control.
- Makes the climax stronger.
- Makes you feel more alive.
- Some kinda spiritual thing.
- Some folks just like the control.
How to Do This Orgasm Denial?
Well, I ain’t no expert, but I hear it starts with talkin’. If you got a partner, you gotta tell ’em what you want. What you expect. What you’re willin’ to do. Communication, they call it. Important, I guess. Especially for this kind of thing that is related to sexual pleasure.
Then, you gotta practice. Like learnin’ to ride a bike. You’re gonna fall a few times. You’re gonna, you know, finish before you mean to. But you keep at it, and you get better. You learn to control yourself. To build the sexual tension. To hold back.
- Talk to your partner.
- Practice, practice, practice.
- Learn your body.
- Find your limits.
- Don’t be afraid to experiment.
Some folks, they use toys. Vibrators and such. I don’t know much about them things. But they say it helps. Helps you get close, but not too close. Helps you stay on that edge.
Is It for Everyone?
I don’t know. Probably not. Some folks, they just wanna get it over with. They ain’t got time for all this buildin’ up and holdin’ back. They want instant orgasm. They just want the release. And that’s fine. Nothin’ wrong with that.
But for others, this orgasm denial, it’s a whole different ball game. It’s about the journey, not just the destination. It’s about explorin’ your body, your desires, your limits. It’s about findin’ new ways to feel pleasure. This is important to make a good sexual life.
- Not for everyone.
- Some like it quick and easy.
- Others like to take their time.
- It’s a personal choice.
I guess it all comes down to what you like. What you’re lookin’ for. There ain’t no right or wrong way to do it. Just gotta find what works for you. And be safe, of course. Don’t go doin’ nothin’ crazy. Listen to your body. And if somethin’ don’t feel right, stop.
Me, I’m still on the fence ’bout this whole thing. But I’m willin’ to keep an open mind. You never know what you might discover ’bout yourself. You just need to keep exploring. Life is a long journey.
This orgasm denial, it is not for everyone, that’s for sure. But if you are looking for something different. Something new to spice things up and make your sexual activity more intense, maybe it’s worth a try. Just remember to communicate and set boundaries with your partner, especially when you are doing it with someone else.
