Well, let me tell you about a little experiment I got into the other day. I was with my partner, and we were getting pretty hot and heavy, you know, as you do. We’d tried a bunch of different stuff before, but there were still a couple of things we hadn’t explored. So, I figured, why the hell not? It’s all about having fun and enjoying each other, right?

We started off with some good old-fashioned oral. Now, I’ve always been a fan of this. There’s something about the intimacy and the directness of it that just gets me going. I mean, you’re right there, up close and personal, and the sensations are just incredible. We went at it for a while, switching positions, trying different techniques. It was amazing, as always. It’s a solid experience to do a lot of foreplay, which makes both me and my partner feel relaxed and ready for what comes next. There are so many ways to touch each other before the actual sex begins. It’s a great way to build up excitement and get your body ready for what’s coming.
But then, we decided to kick things up a notch. We’d talked about anal before, but never actually gone through with it. I was a bit nervous, I won’t lie. It’s a whole different ball game. But my partner was really reassuring, and we’d gotten plenty of lube, so I thought, let’s give this a shot.
Getting started was… well, it was a bit awkward, to be honest. It’s not exactly the most natural thing in the world, sticking something up your butt. But we took it slow, used a ton of lube, and just focused on each other. It took some time to get used to the sensation, but once we did, it was pretty damn good.
- First attempt: Tried a finger, just to get a feel for it. It was weird, but not painful.
- Second go: We moved on to a toy. Still a bit uncomfortable, but the lube helped a lot.
- The real deal: Finally, we went for it with the actual penis. It was intense, to say the least. Different from anything I’d felt before.
We tried a few different positions, just like with oral. Some worked better than others, but that’s all part of the fun, figuring out what you both enjoy. And let me tell you, when you find that sweet spot, it’s mind-blowing.
Now, I’m not saying anal is for everyone. It’s definitely not the same as oral, and it requires a lot more preparation and communication. But if you’re curious, and you have a partner you trust, I’d say it’s worth exploring. Just remember to take it slow, use plenty of lube, and listen to your body.

In the end, both oral and anal were great experiences, in their own ways. It’s all about what you and your partner are into, and being open to trying new things. Sex is supposed to be fun, after all. So why not experiment a little? You might just discover something you really love.
For me, sex is whatever feels good to me and my partner. As long as everyone involved is on board and having fun, it’s all good. So, for me and my partner, we include a lot of things in our sex life, like vaginal sex, oral sex, anal sex, and playing with sex toys. We even use our hands and fingers for some extra fun. It’s all about exploring what makes us feel good and enjoying our time together.
Remember folks, always use protection and lots of lube if you’re going the anal route. Safety first!
So there you have it, my little adventure in the world of oral and anal sex. Hope you enjoyed the ride, if you are curious about these two types of sex, I encourage you to try it out for yourself.