So, it was my first time, and I was, like, super nervous. I mean, who isn’t, right? I did a bit of reading online beforehand. “What are we supposed to do? Do we actually blow on it, suck on it?” That’s what most of the articles were going on about. It sounded so technical and weird, to be honest. And don’t even get me started on those videos—totally not helpful, just confusing.
I decided to just go with the flow, you know? My partner was pretty chill about it, which helped a lot. I remember thinking, “Okay, just relax and see what happens.” We started making out, and things got heated pretty quickly. I won’t lie; there were a few awkward moments. There was this one time he pushed down on my head. I was like, “Dude, no, that’s not cool.” It felt so degrading, you know? But we talked about it, and he got the message.
After that little hiccup, I tried focusing on, like, the tip. It’s super sensitive, apparently. I tried a bit of everything—licking, kissing, sucking, just to see what felt good for both of us. I was whispering, asking him if he liked it faster or slower, more pressure or less. It was kind of fun, actually, once I got over the initial panic.
Communication is Key
- Talk it out: If something feels weird or uncomfortable, say something.
- Listen: Pay attention to your partner’s reactions.
- Experiment: Try different things to see what you both enjoy.
One thing I learned is that it’s not just about the physical stuff. It’s about being comfortable and open with each other. I used to be so self-conscious about my own body, but this whole experience made me realize it’s not a big deal. It is important to shed your shame and just enjoy the moment.
We spent a lot of time just playing around, trying different things. It wasn’t like those crazy scenes you see in movies. It was more about exploring and having fun. We set the mood with some music and dim lights, which made it feel more intimate. I even tried using my hands a bit, just to add some variety. It’s important to keep things interesting, you know?
Honestly, the best part was just being able to talk about it afterward. We laughed about the awkward bits and talked about what we liked. It felt good to be open and honest. And you know what? It wasn’t as scary as I thought it would be. It was actually kind of a bonding experience.
So yeah, that’s my story. It wasn’t perfect, but it was real. And it was definitely a learning experience. I’m glad I did it, and I’m looking forward to seeing where things go from here. It’s all about communication, trust, and just having fun. And remember, it’s okay to be nervous. Just accept it and go with the flow. You might be surprised at how much you enjoy it.
