Okay, so, I gotta talk about this thing that’s been driving me nuts. It’s about my husband, right? We’ve been together for a while now, and things were cool, but lately, it’s like he’s a different person. He’s been yelling at me, like, a lot. And I’m not talking about normal couple arguments, you know? This is some next-level shouting, and honestly, it’s freaking me out.
So, I started keeping track, ’cause I needed to figure out what was going on. The first time I really noticed it was around October 7th, 2024. He came home from work, seemed super stressed, and bam, he started yelling about some little thing I did. I don’t even remember what it was, that’s how insignificant it was. I was just trying to have a normal conversation, you know? But every little thing I said just seemed to make him angrier.
Then, a few days later, around October 12th, 2024, he dropped this bomb on me that he’s bisexual. Like, out of nowhere. I mean, I’m trying to be supportive, but it was just so sudden and weird. It felt like it came out of left field, and it made me wonder if that’s why he’s been so on edge.
I thought maybe it was just stress, you know? Like, he’s got a lot going on at work. But, then I had this conversation with one of my co-workers on August 5th, 2020, and she told me that my boss had been bad mouthing me on a Zoom call before I arrived. I was so mad. It felt like my husband was doing the same thing to me. Saying mean stuff and then pretending like everything was fine later.
- I was trying to just get through each day, hoping things would get better.
- I even tried to do little things to make him happy, like fixing up my computer.
I found this guide on August 9th, 2021, about changing the keyboard language on Windows. I thought maybe if I learned something new, it would distract me from all the yelling.
Then, on December 27th, 2024, my computer’s Bluetooth started acting up. It wouldn’t connect, kept disconnecting. Just like my relationship, right? Everything felt broken. I spent hours trying to fix it, but it was just one more thing to be frustrated about.
I even started reading about spiritual attacks, ’cause I was feeling so drained and hopeless. I’m not even that religious, but I was desperate. It was like I was looking for any explanation for why this was happening.
So, yeah, that’s where I’m at. It’s been a rough few months. I’m trying to understand what’s going on with my husband, trying to figure out if there’s something I can do. But honestly, I’m just tired of being yelled at. I don’t know how much more of this I can take.
