Alright, folks, gather ’round! Let me tell you about this little experiment I’ve been running lately. It’s all about, well, “loving passionately,” as I’ve been calling it. Sounds intense, right? It kinda is.
So, it all started when I stumbled upon this quote online about really throwing yourself into things you care about. I was in a rut, honestly. Work was blah, hobbies felt like chores, and my relationships… well, let’s just say they were existing, not exactly thriving. I needed a jolt.
First thing I did? I picked something small to start with. I’m a coffee fiend, but I’d been just grabbing whatever pre-ground stuff was on sale. I decided to go all in on coffee. I bought a grinder, some fancy beans from a local roaster, and a pour-over setup. I started watching YouTube videos on coffee brewing techniques. Seriously, who knew there was so much to learn?
The initial results? Kinda terrible! My first few cups were bitter, weak, or both. I almost gave up, but then I remembered the “passionately” part. I kept tweaking things – grind size, water temperature, bloom time. Eventually, I started making some seriously good coffee. Like, “better than the cafe” good. It felt amazing to actually master something.
Next up, I tackled my relationship with my partner. We’d fallen into this pattern of just existing alongside each other, not really connecting. So, I started planning little things. Surprise dates, cooking dinner instead of ordering takeout, actually listening when they talked about their day. Small stuff, but it made a huge difference.
The key, I think, was being intentional. Not just going through the motions, but actually putting in the effort. I even started keeping a little journal to track my progress and reflect on what was working and what wasn’t.
Now, I’m not saying everything’s perfect. Some days I still feel like I’m failing miserably. But the point is, I’m trying. I’m putting myself out there and caring deeply about the things I do. And honestly, it’s made a huge difference in my overall happiness.
Here’s what I learned:
- Start small. Don’t try to overhaul your entire life at once.
- Be intentional. Put in the effort and focus on what you’re doing.
- Don’t be afraid to fail. It’s part of the process.
- Keep track of your progress. It helps you stay motivated.
So, yeah, that’s my “loving passionately” experiment in a nutshell. It’s still a work in progress, but I’m excited to see where it takes me. Maybe you guys should give it a try too!
My little notes I took along the way:
- Week 1: Coffee Obsession – Focused on perfecting pour-over. Many failed attempts but learned about grind size and water temp.
- Week 2: Relationship Refresh – Planned surprise dates and focused on active listening. Saw improvement in communication.
- Week 3: Hobby Revival – Rediscovered my love for painting. Started taking an online class.
- Week 4: Reflection and Adjustment – Journaled about progress and identified areas for improvement. Feeling more fulfilled overall.
