Is It True That Whoever Moves First Is Gay? Debunking the Myth

Alright, let’s talk about this “whoever moves first is gay” thing. I ain’t no fancy scholar or nothin’, just an old woman who’s seen a thing or two. But even I can see this whole thing is just a bunch of silliness, like kids playin’ in the schoolyard, you know?

First off, what’s the big deal if someone’s gay, huh? Last I checked, it ain’t hurtin’ nobody. This whole “you move, you gay” thing, it’s just a game, a silly challenge on that TikTok thing the youngsters are always glued to. Some fella, Alfonso somethin’ or other, started it, askin’ folks “English or Spanish?” and then bam, if you flinch, you’re “gay.” Like it’s some kinda bad word or somethin’.

It’s all just a joke, you see? But sometimes, jokes can go too far. People start sayin’ all sorts of things about gay folks, makin’ up stories and whatnot. They say it’s a choice, like pickin’ apples at the market. Or they say it can be “cured,” like some kinda sickness. That’s just plain hogwash if you ask me.

And this ain’t just some silly game no more. This kinda talk, it spreads like wildfire. I heard it’s gone all over the world, to America, to them Latin countries, even to Japan! And when folks start believin’ this nonsense, bad things happen. People gettin’ beat up or worse, just for bein’ who they are. It ain’t right, I tell ya.

They got these myths, these crazy stories they tell about gay folks, like they got some kinda secret plan or somethin’. And then they got all these laws they wanna make, tryin’ to control who people can love or how they can live. It’s like they forgot we’re all just people, tryin’ to get by in this world.

Gay ain’t a choice: It’s just who folks are, like havin’ blue eyes or brown hair.
Gay ain’t a sickness: Ain’t nothin’ to cure, just love and acceptance is all they need.
Gay ain’t a bad word: It’s just a way to describe who someone loves.

Now, I ain’t sayin’ don’t have fun. But this game, it’s got a mean streak to it. It makes bein’ gay seem like somethin’ to be ashamed of, somethin’ to hide. And that ain’t right. We should be teachin’ our kids to be kind, to be respectful, to treat everyone the same, no matter who they love.

So next time you hear someone shoutin’ “whoever moves first is gay,” just remember what I told ya. It’s all a bunch of hooey. Love is love, plain and simple. And there ain’t nothin’ wrong with that, not one bit.

This thing started on the internet, on that TikTok, like I said. And things spread fast on there. But just ‘cause somethin’ is popular don’t make it right. We gotta be smarter than that. We gotta think for ourselves and not just go along with the crowd.

And this “gaydar” thing? I heard some folks even did a study on it, tryin’ to see if people could tell if someone was gay just by lookin’ at ‘em. Sounds like a whole lotta wasted time to me. Why not just get to know someone and let them tell you who they are, instead of tryin’ to guess?

So, let’s put this silly game to rest, shall we? Let’s focus on bein’ good people, on treatin’ each other with kindness and respect. And let’s remember that love is love, no matter who you are or who you love. That’s all there is to it.

It’s like them old sayings, you know? Treat others how you wanna be treated. Mind your own business. And don’t go around spreadin’ hate and lies. Seems like common sense to me, but sometimes, common sense ain’t so common anymore. So let’s bring it back, shall we? Let’s bring back a little kindness and a whole lotta love. That’s what this world needs, not another silly game or another hateful word.