So I’ve seen people online debating this shower fingering thing, and honestly, thought it sounded kinda messy. But hey, gotta try stuff for myself, right? Decided to put it to the test compared to regular sex, just for funsies. This was purely my own experience.

Gearing Up For The Shower Test
Right, first things first. Grabbed my body wash – some cheap coconut stuff I had lying around. Figured I needed something slippery. Jumped into the shower, cranked it up nice and warm. Let the water run over me for a bit to relax. Felt the steam building up, getting the bathroom all foggy.
Okay, time to actually try the fingering part. Slathered plenty of that coconut body wash over my hand and down there. Whoa. Talk about slick! Like, seriously slippery. Started rubbing myself like usual, but everything felt… different. The water was spraying everywhere, sometimes hitting my clit directly which was intense, sometimes just soaking my hand and making the lather go runny.
Honestly? It was a lot. Trying to get the angle right with water pounding down, soap making everything slide around almost too much. My fingers kept losing their place. Felt kinda awkward trying to stand comfortably without wiping out. And concentrating? Hard! Between the noise of the water, the steam, and trying not to slip… definitely a different vibe.
The Next Day: Regular Sex Test
Fair’s fair, needed the comparison. Next day, snuggled up with my partner in bed. Totally different setup. Just us, comfy mattress, dim light, no water hazards. Used our favorite actual lube this time, nice and thick.
Big difference. No water splashing in our faces, no worrying about slipping over. Could take our time, find positions that worked easily, and just focus on each other. Felt way more connected? Like, physically easier and mentally more relaxing for sure. Could actually talk or just enjoy without the shower being noisy.

So… The Verdict?
Did some thinking after both experiments. Here’s the rundown:
- Shower Fingering: Crazy slippery (maybe too slippery!). Water adds wild sensations but makes everything harder to control. Legit fight to stay upright and focused. Can feel intense quick? But messy and kinda chaotic.
- Regular Sex: Way comfier physically. Easier to actually focus on the pleasure and connect with your partner. Feels smoother, less frantic. Just… simpler to manage and enjoy properly.
My Final Take? The shower thing was an interesting one-off? Kinda novel, kinda thrilling because it’s different. But honestly? So much work! For me, sex wins hands down. It’s just plain easier, more comfy, and lets you actually enjoy the ride without the water wrestling or constant fear of slipping. Fun to try the wild idea once, stick to the classics if you want a good time without the hassle.