Okay, so, last weekend, my partner and I decided to spice things up a bit. We’ve been together for a while, and things were getting a little…routine, you know? So, I did some digging online, looking for ways to bring back that spark, that skin-on-skin closeness we used to have.
I stumbled upon this article about intimate sex positions. It wasn’t just about the crazy, acrobatic stuff you see in movies. This was about real intimacy, feeling each other, being one. It got me thinking, and I figured, why not give it a shot?
I talked to my partner about it, and they were totally on board. We decided to start slow, no pressure. We lit some candles, put on some music, just to set the mood, you know?
We started with some classic positions, but with a twist. Like, for missionary, instead of just lying there, we really focused on maintaining eye contact, holding each other close. It was amazing how such a small change could make such a big difference. It felt like we were really connecting, not just physically, but emotionally too.
Then we tried riding. But again, we did it differently. My partner sat up, and I straddled them facing them. This way, we could kiss, touch, and just be really close. I felt every movement, every breath. It was intense, in the best way possible.
- Missionary with a twist: Focused on eye contact and holding each other close.
- Riding, face to face: Allowed for kissing, touching, and a deeper connection.
We also experimented with standing positions. I gotta say, it took some coordination, but it was totally worth it. We found this position where I wrapped my legs around their waist, and they held me up against the wall. It was exciting, a bit adventurous, and definitely brought us closer.
The Real Deal
The whole experience was incredible. It wasn’t just about the physical pleasure, although that was definitely there. It was about rediscovering each other, rekindling that fire. It felt like we were falling in love all over again.
I learned that intimacy isn’t just about the act itself, but about the connection you create with your partner. It’s about being present, being vulnerable, and being open to new experiences. And sometimes, all it takes is a slight modification to a classic position to make things feel brand new.
I used some tips from Kerner, he’s great, really helpful. That article helped me understand the importance of being in the moment, and how we could deepen our connection through some of the positions.
So, yeah, that was my weekend. Pretty awesome, right? I’m definitely looking forward to exploring more. There’s a whole world of intimacy out there, just waiting to be discovered. Who knew a little research and some open communication could lead to such an amazing experience? It’s definitely something I’ll be doing again, and I highly recommend it to anyone looking to add a little more intimacy to their relationship.
I also read about positions that help you hit your G-spot and how to double up on clit play, which we tried, and it was fun, we enjoyed it a lot.
We tried some friction-fueled positions. I had no idea what it is. There are many names of those positions, I just can not remember all of them. We tried the Spider but it was hard for us, we need to get some practice with this one.
It was fun, maybe we will do it again soon, or even today, who knows.
