This here thing, if it is wrong do not think it, that’s what I always say. You see all them young folks, heads full of all sorts of nonsense. Makes me shake my head, it does. If something feels wrong in your gut, don’t even let it near your brain. That’s the best way, trust me.
Don’t Let the Bad Stuff In
You gotta keep them bad thoughts out. Like weeds in a garden, they are. You let one in, and boom, next thing you know, your whole head is full of them nasty things. So, you see a bad thought coming, you just shut the door. Don’t even peek. Just like you wouldn’t let a stray dog into your house, don’t let those bad thoughts into your head.
Best way is to just stay busy, I always say. If your mind is full, there is no space for bad thoughts. Keep your hands busy. Keep your mind busy. When I was young, there are too much work, I don’t have time to think bad things.
- Work hard, do your job.
- Keep your house clean, that will keep your mind clean.
- Help folks, that always makes you feel good.
Think Good Things Instead
Now, if a bad thought does sneak in, you gotta push it out with a good one. Like shooing a fly, you just gotta keep at it until it’s gone. You think, “I can’t do this,” you just tell yourself, “Yes, I can.” Maybe you can’t do it like them fancy folks, but you can do it your way. And that’s good enough.
You gotta be strong, like an old oak tree. Them bad thoughts, they are like the wind. They try to blow you over. But if you got strong roots, good thoughts, you won’t budge. You just stand there, tall and proud. It is not easy, but nothing is easy in this world.
Just Do What You Gotta Do
My mama always said, “Just do what you gotta do, and don’t worry about the rest.” And she was right. You just focus on what’s in front of you. You got a job to do, you do it. You got folks to take care of, you take care of them. You keep moving forward, one step at a time, that’s the most important things.
It is like when you are feeling under the weather. You still gotta get up and milk the cow. You can’t just lay there and feel sorry for yourself. Life goes on. It is just the way it is.
Don’t Listen to the Naysayers
And don’t you listen to them naysayers. They’ll tell you all sorts of things. “You can’t do this,” “You’re not good enough,” “You’re gonna fail.” They just want to bring you down. Don’t let them. You know what you’re capable of. Just believe in yourself. That’s important. It is hard, but important.
There will be someone always talk, no matter you do what. You just can not listen to them. Keep your eyes on the prize.
When I was young, people say I will never get married, I don’t look good. But I did, I have a good man, we have many kids. They all grow up now. So, you see, don’t listen to other people.
Just Be Yourself
Just be yourself, that’s what I tell all my grandkids. You ain’t gotta be like nobody else. You got your own way of doing things, and that’s just fine. You don’t need to be like those people on TV, those are not real. You be you. If it is wrong do not think it, just be yourself.
The world needs all kinds of folks. You be the best you can be, and that’s all anyone can ask for. Don’t try to be someone you’re not. Just be you, just the way you are. And don’t worry too much, things will work out in the end.
Stay Positive
Try to stay positive, even when things are tough. It ain’t always easy, I know. But you gotta try. Look for the good in every day. Even on the bad days, there’s always something to be thankful for. There is always sunshine after rain.
- Sun shining? That’s good.
- Birds singing? That’s good too.
- Got food on the table? That’s a blessing.
You focus on the good stuff, and the bad stuff won’t seem so bad. Remember what your mama told you. If you do not have anything good to say, then do not say anything at all.
Trust Your Gut, It Is Important
That’s all I gotta say about that. If it is wrong do not think it. Trust your gut. It usually knows what’s best. Keep them bad thoughts out, and fill your head with good ones. Just do what you gotta do, and don’t listen to the naysayers. Just be yourself, and stay positive. That’s the way to live a good life. This is my experience, and I have lived a long life. So, you should listen to me. You do not need to think too much, keep your mind clear, and your hands busy. You will be fine, as long as you follow these, you will be just fine. Life is hard, but if you keep these in mind, it will be a little bit easier.
