Alright, buckle up, because I’m about to spill the tea on my quest to figure out if this Scorpio woman was actually into me. It was a rollercoaster, let me tell you.
Phase 1: Observation – The Initial Recon
- First off, I started paying REAL close attention. Scorpios are subtle, man. It’s not like a Leo who’ll just straight up tell you they’re digging you.
- I watched her body language like a hawk. Did she lean in when I talked? Did she make prolonged eye contact? Eye contact was a big one. Scorpios are known for their intense gaze.
- Listened for the subtle cues in her voice. Did she sound genuinely interested when I spoke? Was there a slight change in tone when she addressed me compared to other people?
Phase 2: The “Accidental” Touches
Okay, this sounds kinda creepy written out, but hear me out! I wasn’t being a weirdo, I swear. More like…strategic accidental contact.
- The classic “brushing shoulders” while walking. Did she pull away immediately, or did she linger just a little?
- Offering her my jacket when she said she was cold. Did she accept it readily, or did she hesitate? And most importantly, did she give it back right away, or hold onto it for a while?
- Offering a high five when she accomplished something. Just to see how she would reciprocate.
Phase 3: The Deep Dive – Trying to Crack the Emotional Vault
This is where things got tricky. Scorpios are guarded, like Fort Knox guarded. Getting them to open up is like pulling teeth…uphill.
- I started asking her more personal questions, but in a casual, conversational way. Nothing too intense, just trying to gauge her comfort level. Things like “What’s your favorite thing to do on a weekend?” or “What kind of music are you into?”
- Shared some of my own vulnerabilities. Scorpios respect honesty and authenticity. Showed her I wasn’t afraid to be a little real, you know?
- Tried to make her laugh. Humor is a great way to break down walls.
Phase 4: The Testing the Waters – The Invitation
Alright, time to see if she’d bite. I kept it low-pressure, super casual.
- Suggested grabbing coffee after work. Nothing fancy, just a quick chat.
- Mentioned a cool band I was seeing and asked if she’d ever heard of them. If she seemed interested, I’d casually suggest we go sometime.
- Shared a meme I thought she’d like and see how she would react.
The Result?
So, after all that… She actually said yes to getting coffee! We ended up talking for hours, and it was clear she was just as interested as I was. The accidental touches, the intense eye contact, the willingness to open up… it all added up. Now, are we dating? Well, that’s a story for another time. But I definitely figured out she liked me!
Final Takeaways
- Patience is key. Don’t rush things. Scorpios need time to feel comfortable.
- Be genuine. Scorpios can spot a fake a mile away.
- Pay attention to the little things. It’s the subtle cues that matter most.
Good luck out there, folks! Dating a Scorpio is an adventure, but it’s worth it. Just remember to bring your A-game.
