Today, I want to talk about something a little more exciting, something we don’t often discuss openly. It’s about how to have sex with toys. Yep, you heard that right. I’ve been experimenting with this, and it’s been quite the ride. So, let’s dive into my personal journey of exploring sex with toys.
First off, I started solo. It’s a good way to ease into it, you know? No pressure, just you and the toy, figuring things out. I picked up a simple vibrator, nothing too fancy. It was a bit weird at first, not gonna lie. But I decided to go with the flow. I used it to stimulate myself, focusing on the clitoris and vulva, just like some articles suggested. The goal was to get really aroused, close to orgasm. It took a few tries, but I started to get the hang of it. The sensations were pretty intense, and I could feel myself getting closer and closer to the edge.
- First, I started to touch myself softly, getting into the mood.
- Then, I turned on the vibrator to a low setting, just to get used to the feeling.
- I moved it around slowly, exploring different spots, trying to find what felt best.
- Once I found a rhythm that worked, I increased the intensity gradually.
- It was all about listening to my body and adjusting the speed and pressure.
After getting comfortable with solo play, I thought, why not bring my partner into the mix? It was a bit nerve-wracking to suggest it, but we’re pretty open with each other, so we gave it a shot. We started slow, using the toy during foreplay. It added a whole new level of excitement, I gotta say. We experimented with different positions and techniques, trying to find what worked best for both of us. We took turns using the toy on each other, which was kinda hot.
- We started by using the toy during foreplay, just to spice things up.
- My partner used it on me first, which felt amazing.
- Then, I took a turn and used it on them, exploring their body.
- We communicated a lot, telling each other what we liked and didn’t like.
- It was all about having fun and discovering new ways to pleasure each other.
We even tried some toys that are meant to be inserted. It was a bit daunting at first, but we made sure to use plenty of lube and take it slow. The feeling was definitely different, more intense in a way. We found that some toys are better for gentle play, while others can be used more vigorously. It’s all about finding what you both enjoy.
My Personal Tips
- Start slow: Don’t rush into anything. Get comfortable with the toy and how it feels.
- Communicate: Talk to your partner about what you like and don’t like. It makes the experience so much better.
- Experiment: Try different things. Different toys, different positions, different techniques. It’s all about exploring and having fun.
- Use lube: Seriously, it makes everything smoother and more enjoyable.
- Relax: Don’t put too much pressure on yourself. Just enjoy the moment and let go.
In the end, using sex toys has been a fun and exciting addition to our sex life. It’s not about replacing anything, but rather enhancing and exploring new sensations. We’ve learned a lot about each other and ourselves in the process. It’s opened up a whole new world of pleasure that we didn’t even know existed. And honestly, it’s brought us closer together. We laugh, we experiment, and we enjoy each other in ways we never thought possible.
So, if you’re curious about sex toys, I say go for it. Whether you’re flying solo or with a partner, it’s worth a try. Just remember to start slow, communicate, and most importantly, have fun. Trust me, it’s a game-changer.
