Alright, so a bunch of you have been hitting me up, asking about how to give great head. And you know what? I’m not gonna gatekeep this. We’re all adults here, and I believe in sharing the love – literally. So, let’s dive right into it, no pun intended.
First off, let me tell you, enthusiasm is key. I started this whole journey by just being really into it. If you’re faking it, they’re gonna know, and it’s just awkward for everyone. I remember one time, I was just not feeling it, and let’s just say, the vibe was off. So, rule number one, if you’re not into it, don’t do it.
- Educate yourself. Yeah, I watched videos. Don’t judge. There are tons of resources out there, and trust me, they helped a lot. I stumbled upon this video by this sex expert, Shanna Katz, and it was a game-changer. She talked about focusing on the frenulum and the testicles, which, honestly, I hadn’t really thought much about before.
Getting Started
Next up, take your time. This isn’t a race. I started by just using my hands, you know, getting a feel for things. Then I moved on to using my mouth, but like, really gently. Tiny little kisses, just exploring. And let me tell you, the reactions I got were pretty encouraging.
- Experiment. Once I got comfortable, I started experimenting. Different pressures, different speeds. I remember one time, I tried this swirling motion around the head, and my partner was like, “Whoa, what was that?” in the best way possible.
- Pay attention. They’ll tell you what they like, even if they’re not actually saying words. Moans, movements, it’s all feedback. I noticed that when I went a little slower, my partner would arch his back more, so I knew that was a good thing.
Mixing It Up
- Deep throating. Okay, this one’s not for beginners. But once you get the hang of it, it’s pretty awesome. I watched a bunch of tutorials on this one, and it took some practice, but it’s all about relaxing your throat and controlling your gag reflex. And let me tell you, when you get it right, it’s a whole new level of fun.
Advanced Techniques
And lastly, communication is key. Don’t be afraid to ask what they like. I mean, I straight up asked my partner, “What do you want me to do?” And he was more than happy to tell me. It makes things so much easier, and a lot more fun for both of you.
So there you have it. That’s my personal journey on how to give great head. It’s all about being enthusiastic, educating yourself, taking your time, experimenting, paying attention, and communicating. Trust me, follow these tips, and you’ll be a pro in no time.
Remember, it’s about having fun and enjoying the experience. If you put in the effort and stay open-minded, it’s going to be amazing for both of you. Happy practicing!
