So, I’ve been trying to get better at, you know, giving head. It’s not exactly something you can practice on your own, right? Anyway, I started by doing a bit of reading, trying to get some tips and tricks.
First Time
The first time I actually tried to put what I read into action was… well, let’s just say it was a learning experience. I was nervous, and it showed. I remember thinking, “Is this supposed to be enjoyable?” for both of us, I mean. I tried to keep my mouth wet like the articles suggested, and I focused on, uh, being gentle. But it was awkward. I kept stopping to ask if it was okay, which probably killed the mood. It wasn’t a disaster, but it definitely wasn’t great either.
Getting the Hang of It
After that, I didn’t give up. I talked to my partner about it, which was a bit embarrassing but super helpful. We figured out what felt good and what didn’t. I started to get a feel for the rhythm and pressure that worked. I experimented with using my hands more, not just my mouth. And I learned that it’s not a race! Taking it slow and paying attention to his reactions made a huge difference. It’s a little bit of trial and error.
Still Learning
I’m still no expert, but I’m way more confident now. It’s actually fun, seeing how much pleasure I can give. It is empowering to make him feel so good. I’ve gotten better at, shall we say, the “advanced” techniques, like deep-throating, although that took some practice and a lot of gag reflex control! It only takes three to five minutes for him to orgasm usually.
Tips I’ve Picked Up
- Communication is key. Seriously, talk about it. It makes everything so much easier.
- Moisture is your friend. A dry mouth is a no-go.
- Use your hands. It adds a whole other level of sensation.
- Don’t rush. Slow and steady wins the race, as they say.
- Relax and enjoy it. If you’re tense, he’ll be tense.
So, yeah, that’s my journey to becoming better at giving head. It’s been a bit of a rollercoaster, but definitely worth it. It’s all about practice, communication, and a little bit of spit, haha!
