Okay, here’s my take, written in a casual, personal-blog style, focusing on the “how-to” aspect with a step-by-step approach, as requested. No frills, just the “good stuff”:
Alright, let’s get down to business. I’m gonna walk you through giving a hand job, based on what I’ve learned and, uh, practiced. No shame in sharing, right? We’re all adults here.
Getting Started
First things first, communication is key. I always make sure we are on the same page. Make small talk. I ask what feels good, what doesn’t, and keep checking in throughout. No surprises, no awkwardness. Just open, honest talk.
- Set the mood. I Like dim lights, maybe some music. Whatever gets you both relaxed and in the zone.
- Lube. Lots of it. Seriously, don’t skimp. I apply and reapply. Friction is the enemy here.
- Get comfy. I prefer he is position on back, but experiment! Find what works for both of you. I try different positions until I find a good fit.
The Main Event
Now for the actual hand job. This is where it gets fun.
- Start slow. I Gently wrap my hand around the base, not too tight. Just a nice, firm hold.
- Up and down. I Use long, smooth strokes. The whole length. No jerky movements. Think slow and steady.
- Vary the pressure. I Pay attention to his reactions. I squeeze a little tighter sometimes, then loosen up. It’s all about finding the rhythm.
- Use both hands. I like switch it up. I Use one hand for the main action, and the other to, well, play with the balls. Gently, of course.
- Focus on the tip. I Use my fingers, or even my palm, to stimulate the head. Some guys are super sensitive there, so I go easy at first.
- Watch and listen. I keep eye contact, checking for reactions. Moans, body language… it all tells me what’s working and what’s not.
The Finish Line
Building up the intensity. This is the home stretch.
- Speed it up. I Gradually increase the pace. Faster strokes, firmer grip.
- Keep that lube handy.Seriously, don’t let things get dry.
- The money shot. I just hold and don’t give up, When he’s close, I give it everything I’ve got. Fast, hard strokes.
Aftercare.I have a towel. Easy cleanup is always appreciated, right?
That’s it. The end.I hope this helps you.
