Okay, so, a few months ago, my girlfriend and I were talking, and we decided we wanted to try a threesome. We’d been together for about three years, and things were getting a little, you know, routine in the bedroom. We both thought adding a third person could spice things up. Sounded fun, right?
First things first, we talked a LOT about it. What we were looking for, what we were comfortable with, and what our boundaries were. This part was super important, we made sure we were on the same page about everything before we even started looking. We decided we wanted a woman to join us. So we started referring to her as a unicorn.
Next, I started looking online. I joined a few dating apps that are known for being open to non-monogamous arrangements. I made it clear on our profiles that we were a couple looking for a third. I also joined some online forums and communities where people discuss this kind of stuff.
Man, it was a mixed bag. Some people were really cool and respectful, but others were, well, not so much. I learned pretty quickly how to spot the unicorn hunters—those guys who just want to live out some fantasy without considering what everyone involved really wants. I steered clear of them.
After a few weeks, I matched with this woman named Sarah. Her profile was interesting, and she seemed genuinely interested in the idea of joining a couple. We chatted for a while online, then we decided to meet up for drinks. Just a casual, no-pressure kind of thing.
The meet-up went well. Sarah was cool, and we all got along. We talked about our expectations and what we were looking for. It was important to us that she felt comfortable and respected, not like some object of our fantasy. We agreed to take things slow.
We met up a few more times, just hanging out, getting to know each other better. Then, when we all felt ready, we decided to take the plunge. We set a date, planned the evening, and made sure we had everything we needed to make it a good experience for everyone.
Honestly, it was a bit nerve-wracking at first, but once we got going, it was amazing. We all had a great time, and it definitely added some excitement to our relationship. Sarah was really respectful of our boundaries, and we made sure she felt included and appreciated the whole time. We had a threesome at our apartment.
Afterward, we talked about how it went. We all agreed it was a positive experience. We decided to keep seeing Sarah, and we’ve had a few more threesomes since then. It’s been a really fun and interesting experience. It’s not always easy, but as long as you communicate openly and respect each other, it can be a great way to spice things up.
Here are some things I learned from this whole experience:
- Communication is key: Talk to your partner about everything. Make sure you’re both on the same page about what you want and what you’re comfortable with.
- Take your time: Don’t rush into anything. Get to know the person you’re inviting into your relationship. Make sure everyone feels comfortable and respected.
- Set boundaries: Be clear about what you’re okay with and what you’re not. This is important for everyone involved.
- Be respectful: Treat the third person as an equal. They’re not just there for your pleasure. They’re a person with their own desires and needs.
- Have fun: This is supposed to be a fun and exciting experience. Relax, enjoy it, and don’t take things too seriously.
I hope this helps. And good luck.
