Okay, so, I’ve been meaning to share this for a while now, and it’s about how I figured out I was a lesbian. It wasn’t like some movie moment or anything, it was just… a lot of little things that added up over time.
The Beginning
I always felt a bit different, you know? I dated guys because that’s what everyone did, but it never felt quite right. I mean, the relationships were okay, I guess, but I never really felt that spark that everyone talks about.
The Questions
Then I started noticing things. Like, I’d get way more excited about hanging out with my female friends than I ever did about going on dates with guys. And sometimes, I’d find myself looking at women and thinking, “Wow, she’s really pretty,” but not in the same way I’d think a guy was good-looking. I also read some guides about “Coming Out: Living Authentically as Lesbian”, “Coming out later in life”, and “Living a queer life”.
The Realization
So I started to wonder, “What is it I really want?” I thought a lot about my feelings and what made me happy. I realized that I felt more comfortable and more myself around women. And I started to realize that my feelings for some of my female friends might be more than just friendship. I also read some guides about “Coming out later in life”, and “Living a queer life”.
The Fear
Of course, I was scared. I mean, coming out is a big deal, right? I was worried about what my family and friends would think. I was afraid of being judged or treated differently. I did think about what might happen if people found out.
The Decision
But then I thought, “This is my life, and I need to live it for myself.” So, I decided to start coming out, slowly at first. I identified the best time and place to come out, and I also thought about the “who, what, where, and when”. I chose somewhere that is neutral and safe, such as spaces that are more private.
The Process
- First, I told my best friend. She was amazing and supportive, which gave me a lot of confidence.
- Then, I told a few more close friends.
- Eventually, I came out to my family. It wasn’t easy, but it was worth it.
The Outcome
Now, I’m living my life as an out and proud lesbian, and I’ve never been happier. It’s like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders. I finally feel like I’m being true to myself. If you feel ready, you can come out on your own terms. It is a big step but it can make you happier.
So yeah, that’s my story. It wasn’t always easy, but it was definitely worth it. I hope this helps someone else who might be going through something similar. Remember, you’re not alone, and it’s okay to be who you are.
