Well, ain’t that somethin’. “How to avoid sex,” you say? Guess folks are havin’ trouble with that these days. Lemme tell ya, back in my time, it weren’t somethin’ you talked about much, but seein’ as how you’re askin’, I’ll give ya a piece of my mind.
First off, you gotta get yourself outta there if things are heatin’ up and you ain’t wantin’ it. You know, like if you’re feelin’ uncomfortable, like someone’s pushin’ you. Just up and leave! Don’t matter where you are, just go! Head to the bathroom, call a friend, heck, walk outside and stare at the stars. Anything to get away from the situation.
- Sayin’ “no” should be easy, right? Just say “no”! But folks make it complicated, try to make ya feel bad or somethin’. Don’t let ’em! “No” means “no”! It ain’t gotta be fancy.
- “Nope.”
- “Not interested.”
- “Gotta go feed my cat.”
- Whatever works, you hear? Just get it out there, clear as day.
Now, if you’re strugglin’ with keepin’ your hands to yourself, and it’s causin’ ya problems, I heard there’s this thing called “thinkin’ therapy.” Sounds fancy, but I reckon it’s just talkin’ to someone about your thoughts and such. Maybe they can help ya figure out why you do what you do and get you to a better place.
Some folks, they just gotta stay busy. You know, fill your days with things to do. Take up a hobby, learn somethin’ new. Volunteer at the church, help your neighbor mow their lawn. Anything to keep your mind occupied and your hands outta trouble. Idle hands are the devil’s workshop, ain’t that what they say?
And listen, don’t go feelin’ bad about yourself if you’re havin’ these thoughts or feelin’ these urges. We’re all human, we all got things we struggle with. It’s okay to ask for help, okay to talk about it. Don’t bottle it up inside. Find someone you trust, someone who’ll listen without judgin’. Just gettin’ it off your chest can make a world of difference.
Now, I know I ain’t no expert, and I’m probably missin’ some important things, but that’s what comes to mind. Just remember, you ain’t alone, and there’s help out there if you need it. And don’t let nobody pressure you into somethin’ you don’t wanna do. You’re in charge of your own body, your own life. Don’t forget that.
This sex stuff, it can be a mess, but you can figure it out. Just be honest with yourself and don’t be afraid to reach out for help. That’s the best advice I can give ya.
Tags: Sex Education, Avoid Sex, Relationships, Personal Boundaries, Consent, Mental Health
