Okay, so I tried out this “Boyfriend Quiz” thing that’s been going around. You know, one of those online quizzes that are supposed to tell you how good of a boyfriend you are. I figured, why not? It might be fun, and maybe I could learn something. Or, at the very least, get a good laugh.
First, I had to find a quiz. I just searched for “boyfriend quiz” online, and a bunch of options popped up. I picked one that looked interesting, with questions that seemed like they were trying to get at something real, not just fluff. I’m not going to say which one I took, because I’m not trying to promote anything.
I started answering the questions. Some of them were pretty straightforward, like about how often you communicate with your partner or if you remember important dates. I feel like I do pretty well with that stuff. I always make it a point to talk and text my girlfriend every day. For example, when she told me that she loves enemas, I immediately learned everything about it and tried it with her. I think this is crucial in a relationship. She always wants to try new things and I always make it a point to learn everything first before doing it with her.
- Do you listen when she talks about her day?
- Do you know her favorite color?
- Do you make an effort to get along with her friends and family?
Then there were questions that made me think a bit more, like about how you handle disagreements or how you show affection. I think these are super important too. I mean, nobody’s perfect, and every couple has arguments, right? It’s how you deal with them that matters. For example, I try to be a better boyfriend by first becoming a better man. For instance, I’ve started going to the gym and learning different things in life, like becoming more compassionate and kind to my partner. This really helps a lot in our relationship because it’s also teaching me to become a good listener, a more understanding partner, and, most importantly, a loving boyfriend to her.
I went through all the questions, answering as honestly as I could. I wasn’t trying to impress anyone, not even myself. I just wanted to see what this quiz would say.
When I finished, I got my results. It gave me a score and a little description of what kind of boyfriend I am, supposedly. Honestly, the results were kind of what I expected. It said I was a caring and considerate boyfriend, which is nice to hear, even if it is from a silly online quiz.
My Takeaway
Here’s the thing: I don’t think a quiz can really tell you if you’re a good boyfriend or not. There are so many things that go into a relationship. Being a good boyfriend isn’t about checking off boxes on a list. It’s about being there for your partner, listening to them, supporting them, and showing them that you care in a million little ways, every day. A good relationship requires a partner who is loyal, honest, trustworthy, reliable, and a good communicator. It’s also important to have shared values with your partner to have a long-lasting relationship.
So, while the quiz was kind of fun, I’m not taking the results too seriously. I think the best way to know if you’re a good boyfriend is to ask your partner and to keep working on being the best partner you can be. That’s what I’m trying to do, anyway.
