Alright, buckle up, cause I’m about to spill the tea on something I actually tried. We’re talking about how to get a guy… well, you saw the title.
Phase 1: The “Accidental” Touch
- The Plan: Start subtle. Think “I didn’t mean to” but totally did.
- Action: So, I was at this bar with this dude, Mark. Loud music, crowded space. Perfect excuse, right? I “accidentally” brushed his arm when reaching for my drink.
- Result: He glanced at me, smirked. Okay, progress! Not a full-blown ignition, but definitely a spark.
Phase 2: The Compliment Bomb
- The Plan: Target something specific. Generic compliments are lame.
- Action: “Hey, I actually really like that shirt. The color looks great on you.” Simple, but sincere. I made eye contact and held it for a beat longer than usual.
- Result: He puffed up a little, stood a bit straighter. Definitely noticed. “Thanks,” he said, a little flustered. Score!
Phase 3: The Whispered Secret
- The Plan: Get close. Intimacy is key.
- Action: Later in the night, when the music was even louder, I leaned in close to “tell him something.” I whispered, “This song is awful, isn’t it?” My breath on his ear.
- Result: Dude was visibly flustered. He actually stumbled over his words. The close proximity definitely got to him. I could practically see the gears turning in his head.
Phase 4: The Tease & Withdrawal
- The Plan: Don’t give it all away. Build the tension, then back off.
- Action: After the whisper, I pulled back, smiled, and changed the subject. Acted like nothing happened. Left him wanting more.
- Result: He kept trying to get my attention after that. Leaning in, making eye contact, trying to re-establish that connection. I could tell he was definitely thinking about what had just happened.
The Grand Finale
- The Plan: Seal the deal. (Or, you know, see if it’s even worth sealing.)
- Action: By the end of the night, he was practically tripping over himself to walk me home. At my doorstep, I gave him a lingering look, a soft smile, and said, “I had a really good time tonight.” Then, I went inside.
- Result: Let’s just say I got a text message pretty damn quick. Did it work? Yeah, I’d say it worked. But honestly, the real success wasn’t just getting him “horny.” It was the confidence boost of knowing I could turn up the heat when I wanted to.
Disclaimer: This worked for me, with this guy, in this situation. Your mileage may vary. Every guy is different. But the basic principles – touch, compliments, intimacy, and a little teasing – are pretty universal. Just remember to be yourself, and have fun with it!
