So, it all started a few months ago when I broke up with my boyfriend. We had been together for two years, and things were great, but then we started arguing a lot, and it just got too much. I thought it was the right thing to do at the time, but now I’m not so sure.
I’ve been thinking about him a lot lately, and I really miss him. I want to get back together with him, but I don’t know how. I mean, I know he still cares about me, but I don’t know if he’s still interested in me that way. It feels like I need to get him to like me all over again.
The first thing I did was give him some space. I know it sounds weird, like, how is giving him space going to make him like me again? But I figured he needed some time to process the breakup and figure out what he wants. I didn’t want to bombard him with texts and calls; that would just push him away. I think that respecting his space made me less annoying, and he even started to reach out to me first.
After a couple of weeks, I started reaching out to him more. I didn’t want to come on too strong, so I just started with casual conversations. We talked about our day, what we were up to, and stuff like that. It was nice to just chat with him again, even if it was just small talk. I tried to be engaging and show him that I was interested in what he had to say. I asked him about his hobbies and tried to find things we had in common.
Then, I started to flirt subtly. I wasn’t obvious about it, but I made sure to compliment him, make eye contact, and just be a little more playful than usual. I could tell he was starting to warm up to me again. He started initiating conversations more often and even asked me to hang out a few times.
I also decided to make him work for my attention a bit. I didn’t want to seem too eager, so I didn’t always respond to his texts right away, and I didn’t always say yes when he asked me to hang out. It’s like playing hard to get, but not in a mean way. Just enough to keep him on his toes and make him realize that he had to put in some effort too.
We started hanging out more and more, and it felt like we were dating again. We went to the movies, had dinner, and just spent time together. It was really nice, and I could feel us getting closer again. I know that time can be your friend when you’re trying to get back together with someone. It gives you both a chance to miss each other and realize what you had.
Eventually, we talked about getting back together. It wasn’t easy, and we had to address the issues that led to our breakup in the first place. But we were both willing to work on things, and we decided to give it another shot.
So, that’s my story. It wasn’t easy, but I’m glad I put in the effort to get him to like me again. We’re back together now, and things are better than ever. We’re communicating better, and we’re both more committed to making things work. It all comes down to being patient, giving him space, showing him you’re interested, and making him put in some effort too. It worked for me, so maybe it will work for you too.
- Giving him space
- Being engaging
- Flirting subtly
- Making him work for your attention
It’s Not Always Easy
Getting someone to like you again isn’t always a walk in the park. There were times when I doubted myself and wondered if it was even worth it. But I’m glad I stuck with it. Just remember that it takes time and effort. You can’t just snap your fingers and expect things to go back to the way they were. But if you’re willing to put in the work, it can definitely happen. Don’t give up too easily, and remember that communication is key. Talk to him, listen to him, and try to understand where he’s coming from. That’s what made the difference for me.
