I’ve been seeing a lot of talk about “hotwife” and “cuckold” stuff online lately, and it got me curious. My wife, Sarah, and I have always been pretty open about our fantasies, so we decided to give it a try. Let me tell you, it’s been a wild ride.
Getting Started
First, we talked, a lot. We laid out all our feelings, fears, and desires. It was important to make sure we were both really into the idea, and not just doing it to please the other. We set some ground rules: safe words, boundaries, and regular check-ins to make sure we were still on the same page.
Finding a “Bull”
Next, we had to find someone to join us. We decided to use a dating app to find a “bull” – that’s the term for the guy who would be with my wife. We swiped and chatted with a bunch of guys, but it was important that we both felt comfortable with whoever we chose. Eventually, we found Mark. He was respectful, understood the dynamic, and, most importantly, Sarah thought he was hot.
The First Time
- We arranged to meet at a hotel bar – neutral territory.
- The tension was insane, but in a good way.
- Sarah and Mark hit it off right away. I watched from a distance as they talked and laughed.
- Then, they went up to a room, and I followed, my heart pounding in my chest.
- Seeing Sarah with Mark was…intense. It was a mix of jealousy, excitement, and a strange sense of pride.
- I watched, I touched myself, and I even joined in a couple of times.
Afterward
After Mark left, Sarah and I couldn’t stop talking about it. We felt closer than ever, like we had shared something incredibly intimate. It wasn’t just about the sex, it was about the trust and the thrill of exploring something new together.
Keeping it Going
We’ve met up with Mark a few more times since then, and each time has been just as exciting. We always make sure to talk about how we’re feeling and to adjust things as needed. It’s not always easy. There have been moments of insecurity and doubt, but we work through them together. That’s the key, I think – communication. Without it, this whole thing would fall apart.
This lifestyle isn’t for everyone, and that’s totally fine. But for us, it’s been an incredible way to deepen our connection and explore our desires. It’s a bit of a taboo, sure, but it’s our taboo, and we’re loving it.
