So, I decided to give it a try yesterday. This thing, you know, it’s been on my mind for a while. I was nervous, no doubt, but also kinda excited. I mean, it’s a big deal, right?
First, I talked to my partner. We discussed what we both wanted, what we were comfortable with. It was a little awkward at first, but we got through it. We talked openly and honestly, that is the most important thing.
Then, I did some reading. You know, just to get informed. Learned about protection and all that important stuff. I don’t wanna get any diseases, you know. It’s crucial to know what you’re getting into, right?
We made sure we were both ready. It’s not something to rush into, that’s for sure. We took our time, made sure we were both feeling it.
We started slow, figuring things out as we went. It was a bit clumsy, I won’t lie. But it was also kinda fun, in a weird way. We were both learning, exploring. It felt natural to enjoy it, even though it was the first time.
Here’s what I learned from my first time:
- Talking is key. Seriously, you gotta talk to your partner.
- Do your research. Knowing what you’re getting into is super important.
- Don’t rush. Take your time, enjoy the process.
- It’s okay to be awkward. Everyone’s a little clumsy at first.
- Have fun! Yeah, it’s a big deal, but it’s also supposed to be enjoyable.
Finally
It was a new experience, that’s for sure. Something I’ll remember. It wasn’t perfect, but it was real. And it was right for us, at that moment. I think that’s what matters most.
