Okay, so, let’s talk about giving someone head. I’ve had my fair share of experiences, and I gotta say, it’s not always as easy as it looks in those movies. But when you get it right, damn, it’s good.
First off, you gotta be into it. Like, you can’t just go through the motions. You have to enjoy what you’re doing. If you’re not feeling it, it’s gonna show, and trust me, your partner will know. I remember this one time, I wasn’t really in the mood, but I tried anyway. It was a disaster. No fun for anyone involved.
Communication is key. Before you even start, talk to your partner. Ask them what they like, what they don’t like. Dirty talk can be a good way to show your enthusiasm. I usually start with something like, “I can’t wait to taste you.” It gets the message across, you know?
Now, let’s get down to the actual doing part:
- Spit is your friend. Seriously, don’t be shy with it. A dry blow job is a bad blow job. I always make sure to keep things nice and wet.
- Teeth are a no-go. Unless your partner is specifically into that, keep your teeth out of it. You’re going for pleasure, not pain. I learned that the hard way once. Let’s just say it wasn’t pretty.
- Use your hands. Your mouth is the star of the show, but your hands can play a supporting role. Use them to stroke the shaft while your mouth works on the head.
- Don’t forget the balls. They’re sensitive too! Gently caress them, maybe give them a little lick.
- Pay attention to your partner’s reactions. Are they moaning? Are they writhing? Those are good signs. If they’re stiff and silent, you might need to change things up.
Swallowing is a personal preference. Some people are into it, some people aren’t. I personally don’t mind it, but I always ask my partner what they prefer. It’s their body, their rules.
Giving head can be a lot of fun, for both you and your partner. It’s all about communication, enthusiasm, and a little bit of skill. Just remember to relax, have fun, and enjoy the ride. And hey, practice makes perfect, right?
So there you have it, my personal take on giving head. Hope you found it helpful, or at least entertaining. Now go out there and blow someone’s mind (pun intended).
