It’s been a while since I posted, but I’ve got a doozy for you guys today. My girlfriend and I finally took the plunge and had our first threesome. Let me tell you, it was a wild ride from start to finish.
It all started with a conversation, as these things often do. We’d been talking about spicing things up in the bedroom for a while, and the idea of a threesome kept coming up. It wasn’t easy bringing it up, I was nervous as hell, but we’d built up enough trust over the years to be open about our desires. After a few awkward laughs and a lot of “are you serious?” we decided to explore the idea further.
First things first, we laid down some ground rules. This was crucial. We spent hours discussing what we were comfortable with, what our boundaries were, and what we hoped to get out of the experience. It wasn’t the sexiest conversation, but it was absolutely necessary. We decided on a “soft start” – no pressure, and either of us could call it off at any time.
Then came the fun part – finding a third. We browsed a few apps, chatted with some potentials, and finally found someone we both vibed with. We set up a casual, no-pressure meet-up to see if the chemistry was there in person. It was, and after a couple of drinks and some flirty banter, we invited her back to our place.
Back at our apartment, things got steamy pretty quickly. We started with some kissing and touching, making sure everyone was comfortable and into it. We experimented with different positions – some were a hit, others were a hilarious miss. There was a lot of laughter, a lot of “wait, how do we do this?” and a whole lot of fun. We tried oral sex, hand stuff, and even some double penetration. It was a whirlwind of sensation and excitement.
- We made sure to check in with each other throughout, using our safe word a couple of times when things felt a bit overwhelming.
- Communication was key – we talked, we laughed, we guided each other.
- It wasn’t just about the physical, it was about the connection between the three of us.
In the end, we achieved what we set out to do – we had a blast, we explored our boundaries, and we created a memory we’ll never forget. It wasn’t perfect, there were definitely some awkward moments, but that’s part of the fun, right? We learned a lot about ourselves and each other, and it’s definitely something we’d consider doing again.
A Few Takeaways
- Talk to your partner – a lot. Be open, be honest, be respectful.
- Set clear boundaries and stick to them.
- Choose your third wisely – chemistry is everything.
- Don’t be afraid to laugh and have fun. It’s supposed to be enjoyable!
- Remember, it’s a journey, not a destination. Enjoy the ride!
So, there you have it – my first threesome experience. It was wild, it was fun, and it was definitely a learning experience. I’d love to hear about your experiences or any questions you might have. Hit me up in the comments!
