So, I found myself in a bit of a weird spot a while back, you know? That kind of muddle where you’re not quite sure what’s what with someone. The feelings were just… there, but foggy. I kept asking myself, “Is this still love, or am I just comfortable, or maybe just remembering the good old days?” It was doing my head in, honestly.
My Little Experiment
One evening, I was just kind of mindlessly scrolling, as you do. And then, I don’t know why, I just typed it in: “how to tell if you still love someone quiz.” Didn’t expect much, figured it’d be a bunch of silly stuff. But, I was curious, so I clicked on one of the first ones that popped up. It didn’t look overly dramatic, which was a plus.
I started going through the questions. Some were pretty straightforward, like “Do you think about them often?” Others, though, they really made me stop and think. It wasn’t just a yes or no. I had to dig a bit deeper. Things like:
- How do you feel when they succeed?
- Do you genuinely miss their presence, even the quirky bits?
- Can you picture a future, a real one, with them in it?
- When they’re upset, how does that make you feel?
Answering these wasn’t quick. I actually sat there and pondered. Some answers came easy, others were a bit… uncomfortable to admit, even to myself on a random webpage. I wasn’t trying to get a specific “score” or outcome. I was more interested in my own gut reaction to each question.
What I Actually Got Out Of It
The quiz spat out some result at the end. Honestly, I barely remember what it said. Something generic, I think. Because here’s the thing I realized: the actual result from the quiz didn’t really matter. Shocker, right?
What mattered was the process. The act of sitting down and being forced to confront those questions, one by one. It was like holding up a mirror. Some reflections I liked, others, not so much. It helped me untangle some of those foggy feelings. It wasn’t the quiz telling me the answer; it was more like the quiz gave me the prompts to figure it out for myself. I saw patterns in my own responses that I hadn’t quite pieced together before.
So, yeah, that was my little adventure with an online love quiz. It wasn’t a magic eight ball, definitely not. But as a tool to make myself think? It wasn’t half bad. It kind of nudged me to be a bit more honest with myself, and that’s always a good thing, I reckon.
