Okay, so, I decided to write this down because, well, it’s been quite a journey. It all started with a bit of curiosity, really. I mean, I’ve always known who I am, but exploring that with someone else, that’s a whole different ball game. So, I took the plunge.
First off, I ditched those gay sex apps. Seriously, finding anything meaningful on Grindr? Forget about it. That was step one. I figured, if I’m going to do this, I want it to be real, you know? Not just some random hookup.
Next, I started looking around, for real. I checked out some online forums, and even asked around at a couple of local shops. It’s kind of funny, but the people at these places, they really know their stuff. They gave me some solid advice on where to meet guys who are into the same things.
- Embraced who I am. No point in doing any of this if you’re not comfortable in your own skin.
- Explored a bit. I read up on what to expect, the whole nine yards. It’s not all that different, but there are some nuances, you know?
- Talked to people. Not just online, but in person too. Got some real-life advice from guys who’ve been there, done that.
Here are the things I did:
So, I finally met this guy. We hit it off pretty well, talked for a while, and decided to take it to the next level. It was… intense. But good intense. We took our time, made sure we were both comfortable, and just went with the flow.
Honestly, the best part was just connecting with someone on that level. It wasn’t just about the physical stuff, but that was great too. We explored, tried new things, and just enjoyed each other’s company. It was a real eye-opener, to say the least.
In the end, it was an amazing experience. I learned a lot about myself, and about what I want. And I realized, it’s not just about sex, it’s about finding someone you connect with, someone who gets you. And when you find that, it’s something special.
