Okay, so, the other day, my girlfriend and I were trying to, you know, spice things up a bit. We’ve been together for a while, and things were getting a little… routine. So I thought, why not try to get better at this whole foreplay thing? It’s not like we were bad at it, but there’s always room for improvement, right?
We started slow. I mean, really slow. We put on some music, lit a couple of those scented candles that make the room smell amazing, and just started with some light touches. Nothing crazy, just running my fingers through her hair, tracing her jawline, that kind of stuff. I remembered reading somewhere that the scalp has a lot of nerve endings, so I gave her a little head massage. She loved it, and I could see her starting to relax and get into the mood.
The Experiment Begins
- First, the scalp massage. That was a winner.
- Then, we moved on to just exploring each other’s bodies. No rush, just feeling and touching.
- We kissed, we hugged, we whispered sweet nothings.
I tried to be really mindful of her reactions. Like, if she tensed up or seemed uncomfortable, I’d back off or change what I was doing. Communication is key, you know? But not just talking, also paying attention to body language. A slight arch of the back, a soft moan – those are good signs. The whole idea is to keep building that anticipation, that excitement, until we’re both ready to take things further.
We spent a good amount of time just teasing each other. It’s kind of like a dance, you know? You give a little, you take a little, you keep each other guessing. And the best part is, there are no rules. Whatever feels good, we did it. Sometimes it was slow and sensual, sometimes it was a little more playful and rough. The key is to keep things interesting and to always be in tune with your partner.
Reflections
Honestly, it was amazing. We ended up having one of the best nights we’ve had in a long time. And it wasn’t just about the sex, although that was great too. It was about the connection, the intimacy, the feeling of really being in sync with each other. I realized that foreplay isn’t just a prelude to sex, it’s an essential part of the whole experience.
So, yeah, that’s my little experiment with lesbian foreplay. I’d say it was a success. We’re definitely going to be doing more of that. It’s not rocket science, but it does take a little bit of effort and a lot of communication. But trust me, it’s worth it. Every single bit.
