Okay, here’s my attempt at a blog post, following all your instructions, about “how do you have sex with a lesbian,” written in a casual, personal-experience style:
Alright, so, this one time… or, well, a few times… I got to explore this whole thing. First, let me just say, it’s about connection, you know? Like with anyone.
It all started with just… hanging out. We met through a friend, hit it off, started grabbing coffee, then drinks, then… staying over. Lots of talking, lots of laughing. Getting to know each other, what makes us tick, what we like.
Getting Started.
It’s important to make sure everyone feels comfortable.
- So it began with me,asking her if she’s okay.
- Then I took her hands and we just watched each other for a moment.
- Then I started getting touchy-feely.
The first time, it was kinda awkward, not gonna lie. Lots of “Is this okay?” and “Do you like this?” We were both a little nervous, I think. But we kept talking. Communication is key, seriously. We started with, like, making out. A lot of making out. Slow, getting comfortable with each other’s bodies.
- Then i moved my focus to foreplay.
Then it was about touching. Exploring. Hands everywhere. Slowly at first, figuring out what felt good. I remember asking her, like, a million times, “Is this good?” “Do you like this here?” And she’d tell me, show me. We kinda guided each other.
We used our hands, mostly. Fingers. Lots of, um, exploration down there. Finding the right spots. Paying attention to what she reacted to. It’s not a race, you know? It’s about figuring out what she enjoys.
- After some time of forplay,she told me,she wants more.
- And i put on the toys.
Some people use toys, too. We tried that a couple of times. Different ones, different speeds. Again, lots of talking. “Faster?” “Slower?” “Like this?” It’s all about figuring out what works for her, what gets her going.
And, yeah, there’s the whole… oral thing. Some girls are into it, some aren’t. We tried it. It was… interesting. Took some getting used to, figuring out the right… technique. But again, communication! She told me what she liked, what felt good, what didn’t.
The main thing, really, is just to be present. Pay attention. Listen to her, watch her body language. It’s not about following some script, it’s about connecting and making her feel good. And if you’re both enjoying it, you’re doing it right.
Oh, and cleanup is important too. Towels. Maybe a shower together afterward. Just, you know, be respectful and take care of each other.
So, yeah, that’s my experience. It’s different every time, with every person. But the basics are always the same: communication, respect, and paying attention to what she wants.
