So, I finally decided to get a fertility exam in Detroit. It’s something I’ve been putting off, but you know, time’s ticking, and my partner and I really want to start a family.

The first step was finding a clinic. I spent hours looking through options. Finally, I found one that seemed pretty good, with decent reviews.
Making the appointment was easy enough. I just called them up, answered a few questions about my medical history, and they scheduled me for the next week. The person on the phone was really nice, which helped calm my nerves a bit.
When the day came, I was a nervous wreck. I got to the clinic, checked in at the front desk, and they had me fill out some more paperwork. Then I waited in this room that was actually pretty comfortable, with soft chairs and magazines. A nurse called me in and took my vitals – you know, blood pressure, temperature, the usual stuff.
Next, I met with the doctor. She was great – really patient and explained everything clearly. We talked about my medical history, my partner’s too, and any concerns we had. It felt good to finally talk to someone about all this.
Then came the actual exam part. I had to get an ultrasound. The nurse guided me to lie down on a table. She put some cold gel on my stomach and used this device to look at my uterus and ovaries on a screen. It was a bit uncomfortable, but not painful. She pointed out everything to me, which was kind of cool.

After that, I had a physical exam. The doctor used two fingers to feel around my uterus and ovaries. It was a little awkward, but the doctor was really gentle and professional.
Once the exams were done, the doctor said they would run some blood tests to check my hormone levels and stuff. I had to go to a separate area where a nurse drew some blood. I hate needles, but it wasn’t too bad this time.
The doctor explained that it would take a few days to get all the results back. She gave me a bunch of pamphlets about fertility and treatment options, just in case. We scheduled a follow-up appointment to go over the results and discuss the next steps.
Overall, the whole experience was better than I expected. It was nerve-wracking at first, but everyone at the clinic was so kind and made me feel comfortable. Now I’m just waiting for the results, which is a whole new kind of anxiety. But at least I’ve taken the first step, and that feels like a big deal. I guess now it’s just a waiting game. I feel like I can finally start getting answers.