So, I got this idea the other day, just popped into my head really, about making one of those “who loves me” quizzes. Seemed like a bit of a laugh, something to pass the time and maybe figure things out, you know?
Getting Started
First thing I did was grab a notepad and pen. Old school, I know, but it helps me think. I started jotting down ideas. What kinds of things show someone cares about you? Not grand gestures, just the everyday stuff.
I thought about things like:
- Do they actually listen when you talk, or just wait for their turn?
- Do they remember little things, like how you take your coffee?
- Do they check in on you, just because?
- Do they support your weird hobbies or interests?
Just basic things, really. I kept going until I had about ten solid questions. Didn’t want it to be too long or complicated.
Making the Quiz Work
Next, I had to figure out how to make it a ‘quiz’. Needed some kind of scoring. I decided to keep it dead simple. For each question, it’s either a ‘Yes’ or a ‘No’.
Yes = 1 point.
No = 0 points.
Easy peasy. Anyone can figure that out. Then I needed to give the scores some meaning. I broke it down like this:
- 0-3 points: Okay, maybe let’s be honest, things aren’t looking too hot. Doesn’t mean they hate you, but love? Maybe not the strong kind.
- 4-7 points: Alright, there’s definitely some caring going on here. They show up in some important ways. Good signs.
- 8-10 points: Wow, okay. Feels like you’ve got someone pretty solid in your corner. They’re paying attention and putting in the effort.
Trying it Out
I didn’t build a fancy website or anything. I just typed the questions and the scoring guide into a simple text document. Then I tried it out myself, thinking about a couple of different people in my life.
It was… well, it was interesting. Kind of silly, sure. It’s not some scientific tool. But answering the questions honestly did make me pause and think about those relationships for a minute. What I appreciate, maybe what’s missing.
So yeah, that was my little project. Made a simple quiz, wrote down the steps, tested it out. Nothing groundbreaking, but it was a practical little exercise. Maybe someone else will find it useful, or at least amusing.
