Alright, let’s talk about this whole ‘orgasm without touch’ thing. Honestly, I stumbled onto the idea somewhere online, probably scrolling too late at night. Seemed pretty out there, but hey, curiosity got the better of me. Figured, why not give it a try? Got nothing to lose, right?
Getting Started – More like Fumbling Around
So, the first few times… total flops. Seriously. I’d just lie there, usually in bed, trying to clear my head. That was the first problem – my brain just wouldn’t shut up. Thinking about work, what to eat tomorrow, anything but focusing.
I tried focusing on my breathing, you know, deep breaths, slow breaths. Tried tensing up muscles down there, then relaxing them. Read somewhere that was supposed to help. Sometimes I’d feel a little something, like a faint buzz or warmth, but mostly… nothing. Just got bored or frustrated.
It was way harder than I thought it would be.
I realized I needed serious quiet. No phone buzzing, no TV noise, just me. And I had to really, really concentrate. It wasn’t about thinking sexy thoughts, not really. It was more about tuning into my body, like trying to find a really faint radio signal.
Finding a Bit of a Groove
After a bunch of tries, maybe weeks, I started noticing a pattern. It usually involved:
- Getting super relaxed first. Like, meditation-level relaxed, almost sleepy.
- Deep, slow breathing, really focusing on the air moving in and out.
- That muscle tensing and releasing thing, but finding a rhythm to it. Not too hard, not too fast. Just consistent.
- Directing my focus, my mental energy, right to that spot. Hard to explain, but just putting all my attention there.
The first time something actually happened, it caught me totally off guard. It wasn’t like a huge, earth-shattering thing you get with touch. It was… different. More internal, like a warm wave spreading from the inside out. Definitely felt good, like a release, but subtler.
It was faint, but it was definitely something.
Making it Happen (Sometimes)
So, I kept practicing. It wasn’t like flipping a switch. Some days, I could get there relatively easily, maybe after 15-20 minutes of focused effort. Other days, nope. Mind wandering, couldn’t find the rhythm, just didn’t happen.
The feeling itself got a bit stronger over time, more distinct. Still not quite the same intensity as the usual way, but satisfying in its own right. It’s more of a deep, internal pulse or glow. The build-up is super mental, requires a ton of focus to maintain.
It’s not something I do all the time. Takes effort, takes the right mood, takes privacy and quiet. But knowing it’s possible? Pretty interesting. It taught me a lot about focus and listening to my own body, tuning out the noise.
Honestly, the biggest takeaway was learning that level of mental control and body awareness.
So yeah, that’s my experience. Took a while, lots of failed attempts, but eventually figured out a way that worked for me. It’s not magic, just practice and a whole lot of concentration.
