Alright, let’s get into something I was mulling over recently. It kinda just popped into my head, you know? Like, do guys actually aim for the top or bottom lip when they kiss? Seemed like a weirdly specific thing to think about, but hey, my brain goes places.
Starting the Observation Phase
So, I decided to turn this curiosity into a little personal project, a bit of field observation, you could say. Wasn’t like I was gonna walk around with a clipboard or anything, just decided to pay more attention. The first step was just… well, remembering. I dug back through my own experiences first. It’s funny how you don’t really register these details in the moment, right?
Then, I started consciously, but subtly, observing. Not just in my own life, because, you know, that felt a bit weird and clinical. But you see stuff in movies, on TV, sometimes just couples out and about (without staring, obviously). It became a background task in my brain.
Gathering the “Data” (My Notes, Basically)
Here’s what I started noticing:
- Initial Contact: A lot of the time, it seemed pretty random, honestly. Like, the first touch might be lip-to-lip, kind of centered.
- Settling In: Okay, but after that initial moment? This is where I saw some variation. Sometimes, yeah, one person naturally seemed to take the top lip, the other the bottom.
- Who Takes What?: Now, linking it specifically to guys… this was harder. It wasn’t like a strict rule. I saw guys go for the bottom lip sometimes. Other times, they seemed to be kissing the top lip more. It felt like it depended more on the angle, the height difference maybe, or just what felt natural in that specific kiss.
- The Switch-Up: Also, people don’t just stick to one spot, do they? Kisses move, change pressure, angle shifts. So, locking onto just top or bottom felt kinda impossible.
My Personal Conclusion (For Now)
So, after all this casual observing and thinking back, my big takeaway? There’s no real rule. Seriously. It felt like guys, like anyone else, just kinda go with the flow. Sometimes it’s the top lip, sometimes the bottom. Sometimes it’s just a general meeting in the middle.
It seems way less about a specific target (top vs. bottom) and more about the connection, the moment, the angle, maybe even habit developed with a specific person. You sort of naturally find a fit, one person takes the top lip area, the other the bottom, and it often swaps around anyway during a longer kiss.
So yeah, that was my little investigation. Didn’t find some secret guy code or anything. It’s just kissing. People kiss how they kiss. Maybe focusing too much on which lip kinda misses the point, you know? Just enjoy the moment.
