Okay, so, about this whole 69 thing. I’ve heard about it, seen it in movies, but never actually tried it. A few days ago, my girlfriend and I were getting a little adventurous, and she brought it up. Honestly, I was a little nervous at first, worried about how it would all work out and if she’d actually enjoy it.
First thing we did was talk about it. She told me she’d tried it before and liked it, but we both agreed that communication was key. We established some ground rules, like tapping out if either of us felt uncomfortable or wanted to switch positions.
Getting into Position
We started slow, getting into the position was a bit awkward, like a game of human Twister. We tried the classic head-to-toe arrangement, but we ended up finding that lying on our sides was way more comfortable. It felt more natural and less like a balancing act.
The Experience
Once we were settled, things started to flow. I won’t lie, the first few minutes were a bit weird, with a lot of adjusting and trying to find a rhythm. But then, something clicked. I started to focus on her pleasure, and seeing her enjoy it really turned me on. It was a mutual give-and-take, and I think that’s what made it so good.
What Worked for Us
- Talking it out beforehand: This made us both feel way more comfortable and on the same page.
- Finding a comfortable position: Side-by-side was a game-changer for us.
- Focusing on each other: It wasn’t just about our own pleasure, but about sharing the experience.
What Didn’t Work
- Overthinking it: There were moments when I got in my head, worrying about doing it “right.”
- Rushing: We learned that taking our time made a huge difference.
In the end, we both had a great time. It wasn’t perfect, there were some awkward moments, but it was definitely an experience we want to try again. I think the key is to not take it too seriously, to communicate, and to focus on enjoying each other. It’s not just about the physical act, but about the connection and intimacy it creates.
So, do women like 69? Well, my girlfriend sure seemed to, and I ended up liking it a lot more than I thought I would. It’s definitely not for everyone, but if you’re both open to it and willing to communicate, it can be a really fun and pleasurable experience. And we climaxed eventually. That’s really cool.
