Okay, here’s my attempt at writing a blog post in the style you requested, focusing on the “process” and using informal language, action verbs, and basic HTML formatting:

So, last night was… interesting. My wife and I have been trying to spice things up, and we’ve been talking about deep throating for a while. It’s something she’s been curious about, and honestly, so have I. We’ve watched some videos, read some stuff, but nothing really prepares you for the real thing.
We started slow. Lots of foreplay, you know, getting each other in the mood. Lots of lube. That’s key, I learned quickly. Don’t skimp on the lube, seriously.
Getting Started
- First, she started with just the tip. Gentle, teasing…it built up the anticipation.
- Then she took a little more, using her hand to kind of guide it in.
It was a weird feeling at first. Not painful, but definitely… different. My gag reflex kicked in a couple of times. I coughed, she stopped, we took a break, took a deep breath, and reassurred each other. Communication is really important during this.
She tried a few different positions.
- On her knees,
- me lying down.
- her on top, kind of controlling the depth and pace.
That last one seemed to work best for her. She could really control how far she went.

I focused on relaxing my throat. That’s what everyone says, and it’s true. The more tense you are, the more likely you are to gag. Breathing deeply helped. So did thinking about… other things. Distraction is your friend.
She got better with practice. Each time, she went a little further, a little longer. She used her fingers to kind of gauge how far she was going, and to keep her throat open. I could feel her getting more confident.
The Climax (pun intended!)
Eventually, she got the hang of it. She was able to take the whole thing, no problem. The feeling was… intense. It’s hard to describe. It’s a combination of pressure, fullness, and just…raw sensation.
I came pretty quickly after that. It was explosive. More intense than usual, for sure.

Afterward, we cuddled and talked about it. She said it was challenging, but she enjoyed the feeling of pushing her limits. I told her how incredible she was, and how much I appreciated her trying something new with me.
It’s definitely something we’ll be doing again. But we’ll take it slow, and always make sure we’re both comfortable and enjoying it. That’s the most important thing, right?