Okay, so I’ve been dating this Capricorn guy for a while now, and let me tell you, it’s been an… interesting experience. At first, I did not pay much attention to him. You know those types that are all steady and serious? That’s him.
It all began when we bumped into each other at a mutual friend’s party. I noticed him because, well, he was kind of hard to miss—always looking all put together and maybe a bit intimidating. I initiated our first move. We started with small talk, mostly me asking about his job, trying to find some common ground. He talked a bit about his career goals, which, no surprise, were super ambitious.
Then I asked him out for the first time. I had to ask him out directly. I suggested a coffee shop that I knew had a quiet atmosphere, which I figured he’d appreciate. At the first date, I listened a lot, showing interest in what he was saying, even if it got a little dry sometimes. I made sure to keep the conversation going by asking follow-up questions and sharing a bit about my own life, but always steering it back to him.
After a few dates, I noticed he started to open up a bit more. It felt like he was testing me, you know? Seeing if I was genuinely interested or just being polite. He’d drop little hints about his personal life, and I’d jump on those, showing him that I was paying attention and that I cared. I praised him a little bit, and I found him blushing for the first time.
- First step: Initiated contact and kept conversations light and focused on him.
- Second step: Arranged dates in settings that seemed to fit his personality—nothing too loud or flashy.
- Third step: Showed consistent interest in his life and his feelings, making sure he knew I was genuinely into him.
The first time he really let his guard down, we were at this small, cozy restaurant. He started talking about his family, his fears, and even some of his dreams that he hadn’t shared with anyone else. That night, I felt like we truly connected. I kept eye contact, gave him my undivided attention, and really tried to understand where he was coming from.
Fast forward to now, and we’re still going strong. I’ve learned that with Capricorns, it’s all about patience and proving that you’re in it for the long haul. You have to show them that you’re reliable and that you’re not going to freak out when things get tough. And trust me, it’s worth it. Seeing him slowly open up and share his world with me has been incredibly rewarding.
So, if you’re into a Capricorn guy, my advice is to be patient, be genuine, and be ready to prove your loyalty. It might take some time, but once you crack that shell, you’ll find a deeply caring and committed partner underneath.
