Okay, so people throw around the term ‘sloppy blow job’. I’ve been around, seen a few things, heard a lot more. Let’s get into what that usually means based on what I’ve encountered.
First off, think ‘messy’. That’s the core of it. Not neat, not tidy, not precise like some folks want. We’re talking about letting things get wet. Really wet. Lots of spit involved, that’s pretty much non-negotiable from what I’ve seen.
So what’s the actual process look like?
Well, from my experience and what I’ve gathered, it’s less about super specific techniques, you know? Less focused on hitting exact spots or maintaining perfect rhythm. It’s more about… enthusiasm, maybe? Immersion?
- Lots of saliva: This seems to be the main ingredient. Not just enough to make things smooth, but deliberately using a lot.
- Less precision: Forget about just focusing on the tip or shaft in a controlled way. It often involves using the whole mouth, maybe even getting cheeks and chin involved in the action.
- More noise sometimes: Yeah, the wetness often leads to more sound. Some people are really into that aspect.
- General ‘messiness’: Things get slick, maybe dripping. The ‘sloppy’ part really comes into play here. It’s not about keeping things contained.
I remember way back, things weren’t labeled quite so much. You just did what felt right or what the other person seemed to dig. Now there’s a term for everything. ‘Sloppy’ got attached to this style.
The thing is, it’s a preference. Some guys absolutely love it, feels more intense or passionate to them. Others? Not so much. They might find it too much, or just genuinely prefer something neater, more controlled. And on the giving end, some people enjoy letting loose like that, others find it uncomfortable or just plain messy.
I’ve definitely seen situations where wires got crossed. Someone thinks they’re supposed to be sloppy because they heard it was hot, but it just comes off as inexperienced or overwhelming. Then other times, it’s exactly what both people are looking for. Just depends on the folks involved, like most things.
So yeah, that’s my take on it from years of just… being around and paying attention. It’s basically a very wet, less controlled, potentially messier style of oral sex. Not inherently good or bad, just a specific way of doing things that some people are really into.
