So, let’s talk about this whole transition thing. I started thinking about switching things up when I was 22. I was fresh out of college, working a 9-to-5, and I just wasn’t feeling it. It felt like something was missing, you know? I began to realize that I might be trans, but I wasn’t sure. I started by doing a bunch of research online. I read articles, watched videos, and tried to understand what I was feeling. I thought, “Maybe this is it,” but I still had a lot of doubts.
I started by making small changes. I started growing my hair out a bit longer. I experimented with different styles, trying to find something that felt right. Then I started wearing clothes that made me feel more comfortable. It was a slow process, I didn’t want to rush anything. I remember feeling a mix of excitement and nervousness every time I tried something new. It was like I was discovering a new part of myself, but I was also scared of what others might think. During this time, I also started talking to a therapist. They helped me work through my feelings and understand myself better. It was really helpful to have someone to talk to who understood what I was going through.
I began to experiment with some simple makeup too. I kept it simple, trying to learn how to apply it properly. It felt good to do something I had always wanted to do. After a few months, I started feeling more confident. I was still nervous, but I felt like I was on the right path.
Then, around the time I turned 25, I decided to take the next big step and started hormone replacement therapy (HRT). I talked to my doctor and got all the necessary tests done. I decided to start HRT, which was a huge step. It was scary, but I knew it was what I needed to do. I started taking hormones and monitoring my body’s changes.
The first few months on HRT were tough. I had a lot of mood swings, and my body was going through a lot of changes. But I kept going, and slowly but surely, I started to see changes. My skin softened, my body shape started to change, and I just felt more like myself.
Starting HRT at 25 felt right for me. I had taken the time to explore my feelings, I had a support system in place, and I was mentally prepared for the journey ahead. I’m still on this journey, and it’s been challenging, but it’s also been the most rewarding thing I’ve ever done. I’ve learned so much about myself, and I’m excited to see where this path takes me. And honestly, it’s never too late to start. I’ve met people who started transitioning in their 30s, 40s, and even 60s, and they’re all so much happier now.
Here are some things I did during my transition:
- Explored my feelings: I spent a lot of time journaling, talking to my therapist, and just thinking about who I am.
- Made small changes: I started with small things like changing my style, growing out my hair and experimenting with makeup.
- Sought support: I talked to friends, family, and a therapist who helped me through the process.
- Started HRT: This was a big step, but it was the right one for me.
- Monitored changes: I kept track of the physical and emotional changes I was experiencing.
This whole process took time, maybe about six months to a year to really start feeling like I was on the right track. But it’s different for everyone. The most important thing is to listen to yourself and do what feels right for you. And remember, you’re not alone. There are so many people out there who understand what you’re going through. I continued to see my therapist regularly, and I joined a support group for trans people. It was amazing to connect with others who were going through similar experiences. We shared tips, supported each other, and it made the whole process a lot less lonely.
It has changed my life in ways I never imagined. I feel more confident, more authentic, and just more at peace with myself. It’s been a long road, but I wouldn’t trade it for anything.
