Okay, so, today I wanna talk about something a bit, uh, different – CNC, or consensual non-consent. Yeah, it’s a mouthful, and it’s exactly what it sounds like. It’s this BDSM thing where you act out a non-consensual scenario, but, like, everyone’s actually on board and agreed to it beforehand.
So, how did I get into this? Well, I’ve always been curious about the kinkier side of things. I started exploring BDSM a while back, and I just found myself getting deeper and deeper into it. I started with some basic stuff, like bondage and impact play. Then I tried some roleplay, and that got me thinking, “What if we took this further?”
I talked to my partner about it. We were both into the idea of pushing boundaries and exploring new things. So, I did some research. I read about CNC, how it works, and how to do it safely. It seemed intense, but also kinda hot. So we decided to give it a shot.
First thing we did was talk. A lot. We talked about our fantasies, our limits, and what we were comfortable with. We established safe words and signals. We made sure we both understood that even though it might look like one of us wasn’t consenting, we both were 100% into it.
Then we set up a scene. We decided on a scenario where my partner would be the “aggressor” and I would be the “victim.” We planned out the details – where it would happen, what would be said, what would be done. We even picked out outfits, just to make it feel more real, you know?
When we actually did it, it was… intense. It felt so real, even though I knew it was all planned out. My partner was rougher than usual, and I pretended to resist. But the whole time, I knew I was safe. We had our safe words, and we trusted each other completely.
How It Felt
- It was thrilling. The adrenaline rush was insane.
- It was scary, but in a good way. It was like being on a roller coaster – you know it’s safe, but it’s still a wild ride.
- It was incredibly intimate. To be that vulnerable with someone, and to trust them that much, it’s a whole other level of connection.
Afterward, we talked some more. We processed what happened, how we felt about it, and what we wanted to do next. We made sure we were both okay, and we reassured each other that we were safe and loved. In fact, we decided to try it more.
So, yeah, that’s my experience with CNC. It’s not for everyone, and that’s totally fine. But for me, it’s been a really interesting and exciting way to explore my sexuality and deepen my relationship with my partner. It’s all about communication, trust, and pushing boundaries in a safe and consensual way.
