Okay, so, a while back, I got it into my head that I wanted to completely control my boyfriend in bed. Not in a weird way, just, you know, take charge and see what happens. So I started doing a few things differently.
The First Move
- Surprise! Usually, he’s the one who starts things. But this time, I decided to make the first move. I waited until he was relaxed, watching TV, and then I just climbed on top of him and started kissing him. He was definitely surprised, but in a good way.
Taking Control
Once we were in bed, I kept going with it.
- Position Power: I stayed on top most of the time. It really does give you more control over everything – how deep, how fast, all of that.
- Calling the Shots: I also decided what we were doing and when. Tried a new position I’d been wanting to try, and he was totally into it.
- Tying Him Down: I had also prepared a rope in advance, and at the right moment I tied him up, and he found this change very exciting.
Communication is Key
It wasn’t just about physically taking control. I also made sure to:
- Talk to Him: Before trying any of this, I talked to him about it. I explained that I wanted to try being more dominant and made sure he was comfortable with it.
- Check In: During the whole thing, I kept checking in with him, making sure he was still enjoying it. It’s important to pay attention to his reactions and adjust if needed.
The Aftermath
So, how did it go? Honestly, it was pretty great. He really liked me taking the lead, and it was fun for me too. It felt like a whole new way to connect with him. I’m definitely going to keep exploring this side of things. It added a whole new level of excitement to our sex life. I really did it!
If you’re thinking about trying something similar, I’d say go for it! Just remember to talk to your partner first and have fun with it. You might be surprised at how much you both enjoy it.
