Okay folks, settled in with my notebook after trying out some tips on that side action. Always down for making things more interesting, right? So, saw this “best sideways position sex tips” thing floating around and figured, why not give it a real spin? Like, actually do it, not just skim and nod. Gotta test this “expert advice”.
First Moves and Finding the Angle
Started simple last night. We were already kinda cuddled up watching some trash TV. Perfect setup, relaxed. I leaned over, whispered the plan – just “hey, wanna try tweaking the side thing tonight?” Got a “sure, why not” back. Good start. Shifted onto our sides, facing each other, classic spoon-but-facing kinda way. Closest we usually get is lazy spooning, so this was a deliberate switch-up.
First thing I noticed: Damn, lining everything up smoothly is trickier than it looks when you’re actually aiming for connection. Just flopping sideways doesn’t cut it. One of us always seemed slightly too high or too low. Kept bumping knees awkwardly. Remembered the tip about adjusting height with pillows. Grabbed one from the couch – shoved it under my hip. Better. Then she shifted her top leg forward, bending it a bit. That helped open things up for access. Getting the angle takes some fiddling! Wasn’t instant magic, more like adjusting car seats.
Making It Work (& What Almost Didn’t)
Finally got positioned decently. Felt closer, more face-to-face than spooning allows. Cool. Started slow. But wow, found movement was kinda limited at first. Couldn’t really thrust the usual way without everything going slippy-slidey or losing the angle. Nearly gave up thinking “meh, too awkward.”
That’s where the advice about using hips and rocking, not pounding kicked in. Instead of big pushes, focused on smaller, grinding motions – like shifting weight forward and back, or small circles. Felt way more controlled. She started matching it, pushing back into those motions. Instant improvement. Suddenly, the connection felt deeper and way less clumsy. Didn’t need force, just rhythm.
Another tip saved the night: using your hands. Seriously! One of my arms was underneath, so I used that hand to pull her closer against me – locked us together. The other hand? Free for exploring. Much easier to keep things hot and intense when you can touch elsewhere freely.
The Big Reveal & Why We’ll Do It Again
Okay, let’s be real, the grand finale felt surprisingly intense. That grind thing, with the close contact and the hands? Yeah, it delivered. Way more intimate. Less of a performance, more of a shared groove.
Would I call it the “best” ever? Not every single time. But here’s what made it a win:
- Surprisingly deep connection face-to-face
- The grind is low effort but high payoff
- Hands free to roam is a major plus
- Feels less frantic, more sustained
Took some patience to ditch the awkwardness and find that sweet spot. Pillows and hip movement are non-negotiable helpers. Definitely not a “flop and go” position. But once you figure out that rocking rhythm? It’s a keeper. Tired now, but hey, research mission accomplished. Both happy. Might grab pizza later to celebrate the successful experiment.
